It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
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It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
Most men try to push themselves forward with criticism—but that fuel burns out fast. Episode Highlights: Why putting pressure on ourselves feels logical but actually drains energyHow early success conditions us to rely on fear and shameSigns your self-talk is undermining motivation (numbing out, overworking, chasing validation)The shift from critic to cheerleader—what it sounds like in real lifeTakeaways: Notice when your self-talk is critical and learn to reflect on the impact.Trade pressure...
Durable Dad with Tommy Geary
It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
