It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
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It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
Most high-performing men pride themselves on staying calm, staying positive, and getting through hard stuff fast. But when your wife is upset, that instinct to cheer her up or look on the bright side is doing more harm than good. In this episode, we talk about why emotional reflexes—though well-intended—can actually push your partner away. We’ll cover: Why men shut down or push past emotions—and how that breaks connectionHow the habit of fixing or reframing keeps you from being presentWhat em...
Durable Dad with Tommy Geary
It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
