In this behind-the-scenes update, Kate shares the big life decisions she’s been navigating — from military moves to massive uncertainty — and what it taught her about finding clarity in the messy middle
This week, I’m bringing you behind the scenes of the last six months — a season filled with massive questions and no easy answers.
Were we going to move to Belgium?
Stay in the Air Force?
Move to Colorado or Utah?
Start a whole new chapter with the airlines?
For a while, it felt like every option was on the table — and none of them were clear.
In this episode, I’m opening up about what it’s really like to navigate that kind of uncertainty… the in-between where you crave clarity but can’t see the full picture yet.
You’ll hear:
🎯 Why clarity often comes after you move — not before
🎯 How to trust your path when it feels messy or uncertain
🎯 A new way to look at “wrong turns” (hint: bumper bowling 🎳)
🎯 How I learned to stay confident, even when I didn’t have all the answers
If you’re in a season of transition, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind — you’re just building your next level of alignment.
And if you want a space to keep practicing this kind of grounded, quantum trust in real time… doors to The Quantum Club open soon. ✨
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If you’ve ever felt like visualization doesn’t work for you, this episode will change that.
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In this episode, Kate breaks down why so many people think manifestation or visualization “doesn’t work” — and how they’re unknowingly using their minds to rehearse the wrong future.
She explains how replaying painful memories, betrayals, or failures keeps your nervous system and subconscious mind locked in the past… while training your brain to expect more of the same.
You’ll hear:💭 Why your brain doesn’t know the difference between past, present, or imagined experiences💭 How replaying negative memories is visualization — just reversed💭 The one simple shift that will instantly make your life lighter, happier, and more magnetic💭 How to start using your imagination to expand instead of contract
This is your permission slip to stop reliving what hurt you — and start rehearsing what’s possible.
🎧 Tune in for a powerful reframe that will change the way you think about your mind, your energy, and your future.
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Ever have one of those days where you write a post, record a video, or work on an idea — and it just doesn’t feel like you nailed it?
In this episode, Kate dives into the sneaky pressure we put on ourselves to always “get it right” and how that belief can quietly block our flow, joy, and results.
You’ll hear:
✨ Why not feeling your best doesn’t mean you’re off-track
✨ How to release the need to “nail it” for things to work
✨ The truth about energy, momentum, and manifestation (even on tired days)
✨ A simple mindset shift that separates your feeling good from your success — and makes both easier to sustain
Sometimes, the magic isn’t in the perfect post or polished moment… it’s in showing up anyway. 💫
→ Tune in for a reminder that your ripple effect doesn’t depend on perfection — it depends on your presence.
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In this behind-the-scenes episode, Kate gets interviewed by her husband, Zach, about everything that went down at Dream Bigger LIVE Pensacola 2025 — the wins, the surprises, and the moments that didn’t go as planned.
They dive deep into what it really takes to pull off a transformational event for 55+ women, the lessons learned, and what it means to lead with heart, intuition, and vision when it would be easier to fold.
If you’ve ever dreamed of hosting your own event — or wondered what happens behind the Instagram highlight reel — this episode is your VIP backstage pass. 💫
You’ll hear about:
Why she decided to host Dream Bigger LIVE in the first place
The biggest challenges and “hiccups” that happened behind the scenes
The most magical, pinch-me moments Kate is proudest of
How she kept her energy (and sanity!) as a Projector leading a massive event
What she’d tell anyone thinking about hosting their own in-person experience
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You know that moment when you’re just done?
The one where you look at your bank account, your business, your relationship, or your energy and think:
“That’s it. I can’t do this anymore.”
Yeah, me too.
That moment — the F*ck It Moment — is often the beginning of everything good.
It’s the breaking point that becomes the plot twist.
In this episode, I’m sharing the story of my latest F*ck It Moment that sparked a brand new season (and identity) for this podcast.
You’ll hear:
💥 The truth about why we wait until we’re fed up to finally make changes🔥 How to create your next F*ck It Moment on purpose (without hitting rock bottom)💫 Why “fed up” energy can be the spark that starts your next quantum leap✨ A sneak peek into what’s coming next in this new season of Dream Bigger
If you’ve been waiting for a sign that it’s time to shake things up — this is it.
Do you struggle with feeling good about yourself when you see someone being so much better?
Do you struggle with confidence?
STOP doing this for 30 days and your confidence will change MASSIVELY!
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We are constantly bombarded with messages that leak into our subconscious mind... most of them are the OPPOSITE of empowering.
If the voices in your head don't say things like "OF COURSE you can do this, OF COURSE you're going to crush it, OF COURSE it's going to work..." you need to listen to this episode. Your success depends on it.
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Have you started going to the gym, only to find yourself back in the bed with ice-cream binging Love is Blind every night? Or maybe dating? Starting a business?
Have you tried to change your habits, your actions, set goals, resolutions... but nothing seems to stick?
THIS episode will blow your mind.
When you change from inside out, your entire life changes on autopilot. And it's going to seem so ridiculously effortless you'll crack up!
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We've all been there... the awkward moment when you say "no", when your gut feels like it's turning inside out because you feel so darn uncomfortable...
OR even worse, that gut wrenching feeling after you said "yes" to something you REALLY want to SCREAM "NOOOO" to.
I get it. People pleasing is a real thing. AND especially for us women.
In this episode I shine some light on how you can start saying "no" without feeling so damn guilty and slowly fade out your people-pleasing tendencies.
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People think that my multi 6 figure business was an overnight success. Or that I am "lucky" to be married to my soulmate for the past 7 years. Or... you get it.
I am sharing 4 roadblocks that are sabotaging you unknowingly on your path to happiness, success, wealth, love and health.
Questions you can ask yourself:
1. Are you willing to be bad at something?
2. Are you focusing on the "HOW"?
3. Are you only focusing on mindset?
4. Are you counting on willpower and motivation carry you through?
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Are you living up to your POTENTIAL? Or does life kind of gets inn the way? Do you get distracted, side-tracked, discouraged? Do you ever feel nervous or awkward about pursuing your dreams?
In this episode, I share how I went from making $500/month in my business to $10K, $20K, $30K months in such a short period of time and what I owe it to (not a strategy lol).
And trust me, if you start doing *this*, you will blow your own damn mind by the end of the year! xo
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Do you find yourself wishing you had more time so you could work out, go out with your friends more, start that side hustle... OR do you more often find yourself hoping that when you open your bank account the money for the All-Inclusive vacation to Fiji will magically appear there?
Either way, this episode will bust the 2 beliefs I see most commonly stopping people from living the life or their dreams AND from fulfilling their potential.
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Has the fear of failing stop you before? Do you worry about making the wrong choice, making a mistake, or even having regrets?!
This episode will completely shift your perspective on fear and failure.
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92% of people never achieve their dreams. Do you believe you have no willpower? That you are in your own way? Do you find yourself wishing you were just a bit more confident?
In this episode, I bust all the myths about creating your absolute dream life and what is or isn't required.
These 8 fundamental lessons turned my life from being broke, in a toxic relationship, to being married to the love of my life, running a multi 6 figure business and hosting my first ever in person conference.
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Are you sick of just drooling over your vision board? Or spending hours and hours visualizing it? Would you rather LIVE it? Then you found the right episode ;)
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Have you been stuck in the "perfectionist loop"? unable to actually go for the life you want to create because you keep trying to find the best way, or prevent yourself from making mistakes... or maybe you don't even feel good enough, knowledgeable enough...? Let's stop that right now!
Aubrey and I chatted about how to release perfectionism with her neat Subconscious Release Technique. Another wonderful modality to hack your subconscious mind!
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Have you ever felt that the minute you “fix” something about yourself there is something new that feels like “this is it, if only I get this right THEN I’ll be/have/manifest ______”? Me, too. I love the personal development world because it has helped me tremendously but it’s sooo easy to get stuck in believing that we can only have what we want once we “fix” all the things.
We are nipping this belief in the bud today.
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Do you have ANY idea when your last period was? I do. Lol. And it was more than a year ago. (#postpartumstuff)
Most women have NO IDEA how to leverage the different times in their cycles.. and only get upset at PMS symptoms and try to push against their bodies... Samantha & I talk about HOW can we leverage the power of each phase in our 28 days cycle.
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