On this episode of the Do Better Podcast, Dr. Megan and Joe catch up and discuss Parenting issues we face as behavior analyst.
Key Takeaways
- The group tentatively selected a mountain goat as Do Better's mascot, symbolizing persistence and overcoming obstacles
- Parenting as a behavior analyst involves balancing analytical thinking with being present as a parent
- Contextual, collaborative approaches to parenting that explain rationales and teach problem-solving skills are preferred over rigid rule-setting
- Helping neurodivergent children navigate societal expectations while honoring their authentic selves is an ongoing challenge
Topics
Mascot Selection -
Mountain goat emerged as leading choice, representing persistence and overcoming challenges
- Other suggestions included owl, fox, wolf
- group favored an animal aligned with "trailblazer" theme
- Plan to create cartoon version; name suggestion "Doby" (pronounced "dough-be")
Parenting as a Behavior Analyst
- Challenge of balancing analytical thinking vs. being present as a parent
- Example: Flexibility around bedtime snacks, considering medication effects on appetite
- Importance of contextual decision-making rather than rigid rules
- Teaching children to make requests in advance and respect parents' time/planning needs
- Setting clear family values (e.g. "we don't lie") and explaining rationales behind rulesSupporting Neurodivergent Children
- Difficulty navigating societal expectations while honoring child's authentic self
- Explaining "neurotypical standards" as arbitrary social constructs
- Teaching self-advocacy skills when possible
- Using resources like Go Zen to address issues like negativity from a neurological perspective
Next Steps
- Finalize mascot selection and create cartoon version
- Schedule February podcast to discuss decision fatigue and long-term thinking in parenting
- Megan to upload full Do Better event calendar for the year by January 31st