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DINKWAP Show
Rem & Alvia
19 episodes
19 hours ago

Join Rem and Alvia as they navigate the joys and perils of adulthood as a married millennial DINK couple in the Philippines, while also trying to break the stigma against the DINK lifestyle or being childless by choice. We tackle challenges like facing adult responsibilities, managing finances, growing careers, breaking generational traumas, generating social impact, cultivating relationships, and determining who should be washing the dishes.

DINKWAP stands for Dual-Income No Kids with a Podcast!

Are you a DINK, SINK, or DINK-curious? Join us at DINK Lifestyle Philippines.

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Join Rem and Alvia as they navigate the joys and perils of adulthood as a married millennial DINK couple in the Philippines, while also trying to break the stigma against the DINK lifestyle or being childless by choice. We tackle challenges like facing adult responsibilities, managing finances, growing careers, breaking generational traumas, generating social impact, cultivating relationships, and determining who should be washing the dishes.

DINKWAP stands for Dual-Income No Kids with a Podcast!

Are you a DINK, SINK, or DINK-curious? Join us at DINK Lifestyle Philippines.

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Episodes (19/19)
DINKWAP Show
From Crushes to Camaraderie: Moments That Shape Us | 019

Join hosts Rem and Alvia on The DINKWAP Show as they welcome longtime friends David and Liz for a candid conversation about the quirks and memories of youthful crushes and the passage of time. From nostalgic stories of school days and secret admirers to reflections on personal growth, ambition, and the ties that bind friendships, this episode offers a genuine glimpse into shared experiences with warmth and humor. Listen in for thoughtful insights and lighthearted moments that celebrate connection beyond the surface.

  • (00:00) - - Introduction
  • (03:40) - - Childhood Crushes & Anime Memories: From Ghost Fighter to Sailor Moon
  • (13:30) - - High School Bonds: Secret crushes, peer pressure, and lessons in maturity
  • (24:30) - - College Life: Meeting new people, surprising connections, and nostalgia
  • (34:20) - - Life Reflections: Growth, regrets, and gratitude for supportive families
  • (39:00) - - Sharing Values: The importance of ambition and shared goals in relationships
  • (40:19) - - Closing Remarks: Gratitude and looking forward to the next episode

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2 months ago
41 minutes

DINKWAP Show
The Art of Small Talk & Maintaining Friendships Through Life's Phases | 018

Join hosts Rem and Alvia on this candid episode of the DINKWAP Show as they explore the delicate dance of social interactions. The duo shares personal stories about awkward encounters, forgotten names, and the framework of making conversation when you'd rather be anywhere else. 


With special guest appearance by Bea and Cesca, this episode dives into the nuances of maintaining friendships through different life stages, the anxiety of small talk, and those cringe-worthy moments we all experience. From impromptu celebrity sightings to mistakenly calling someone by the wrong name, the hosts offer both humor and genuine advice on how to navigate social situations when you're not naturally extroverted.


Whether you're an introvert seeking strategies or simply enjoy authentic conversations about human connection, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on friendship, social anxiety, and finding your people in an increasingly disconnected world.


  • (01:16) - - Introduction
  • (02:18) - - The small talk dilemma: What to say when meeting someone
  • (05:33) - - Frameworks for handling social interactions
  • (09:16) - - Embarrassing social encounters and mistaken identities
  • (12:00) - - The Alex/Nicole name mix-up story
  • (20:00) - - Meeting online friends in real life
  • (22:55) - - How to gracefully exit conversations
  • (32:04) - - Friendships through different life stages
  • (35:42) - - Closing thoughts and reflections


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2 months ago
37 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Building Your Tribe: Finding Friendship and Community in Adulthood | 017

In this candid and humorous episode of the DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia sit down with guests Cesca and Bea to explore the challenges and joys of building meaningful friendships as adults. The conversation delves into how we change throughout different life stages and why finding people who accept our current selves—not just who we were in college—becomes increasingly important. 


The quartet shares personal anecdotes about navigating awkward social situations, from wedding receptions where you know no one to unexpected encounters in public spaces. Through laughter and thoughtful reflection, they discuss how shared hobbies can create communities that provide both connection and a sense of belonging, especially for introverts who find traditional networking challenging.


Whether you're an extrovert who naturally draws people in or an introvert who struggles with small talk, this episode offers relatable insights on creating your own tribe in an age where authentic connections feel more valuable than ever.


  • (01:53) - - The importance of building your tribe as an adult
  • (03:32) - - How people change throughout life and need new friends who know the current you
  • (05:03) - - The "time capsule" effect of old friend groups
  • (06:11) - - The challenge of making friends without an office environment
  • (07:20) - - Why their community is for friendship, not dating
  • (10:45) - - Navigating awkward social situations
  • (14:21) - - Different levels of introversion and social survival skills
  • (24:05) - - Finding your tribe through shared activities
  • (31:12) - - The role of personal agreements in maintaining friendships


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3 months ago
36 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Finding Your Flow: Aerial Hoop, Unexpected Friendships, and Sports in Adulthood | 016

In this heartwarming episode of the DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia welcome special guests Cesca and Bea to discuss the transformative experience of pursuing sports in adulthood. The four friends share their journey of meeting through aerial hoop classes and how this unconventional sport created lasting bonds between them. From overcoming initial awkwardness and physical challenges to finding community in unexpected places, they explore how stepping outside their comfort zones led to meaningful friendships. The conversation weaves through humorous anecdotes about their struggles, inside jokes, and the supportive environment that helped them persist despite not being traditionally "athletic." This episode offers an insightful look at how trying new activities later in life can lead to personal growth, community building, and finding your tribe - regardless of your athletic background or experience level.

  • (00:00) - - Preview
  • (03:38) - - Topic introduction: Pursuing sports in adulthood
  • (05:32) - - How they met at aerial hoop class
  • (09:26) - - Building friendships in unexpected places
  • (13:41) - - Why aerial sports are perfect for introverts
  • (26:24) - - Overcoming childhood sports trauma
  • (29:41) - - The importance of beginner-friendly communities
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3 months ago
32 minutes

DINKWAP Show
The Sweet Truth: Taiwan vs. Philippines - Tastes, Tourists, and Transportation Tales | 015

Join hosts Rem and Alvia of The DINKWAP Show as they delve into their Taiwan travel experiences beyond tourist highlights. In this thoughtful episode, the duo shares insights about Taiwan's refreshingly balanced culinary scene, where even desserts and milk tea offer just the right sweetness compared to their sugar-heavy Filipino counterparts. They explore the contrasts in public transportation etiquette, urban planning, and public facilities between Taiwan and the Philippines, appreciating Taiwan's efficient systems and mindful design. From their day trip to Taichung to unexpected discoveries at Huashan Creative Park, the hosts reflect on cultural differences that sparked joy and contemplation, offering listeners a nuanced perspective on travel that goes beyond typical tourist narratives.


  • (01:54) - - Introduction
  • (03:48) - - Discussing Taichung day tour highlights
  • (09:55) - - Visiting Ningxia Night Market vs Shilin Night Market
  • (13:37) - - Exploring Huashan Creative Park
  • (19:17) - - Taiwan's efficient public transportation system
  • (27:55) - - Airport experiences and returning to Manila
  • (41:46) - - Final thoughts on urban development standards


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3 months ago
44 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Taiwan Adventures: Exploring Markets, Food Delights, and Finding Local Gems | 014

Join Rem and Alvia in this heartfelt episode of The DINKWAP Show as they recount their memorable trip to Taipei. Follow along as Rem experiences his first international journey, from the initial nervousness at immigration to discovering the perfect balance of urban convenience and natural beauty that Taiwan offers.


The hosts share their authentic food adventures through Taipei's vibrant culinary landscape—from hole-in-the-wall restaurants to bustling night markets, from melt-in-your-mouth sashimi at the Taipei Fish Market to the surprising delight of local delicacies. Experience their joy in exploring residential neighborhoods, peaceful parks, and the convenience of Taiwan's impressive public transportation.


With charming anecdotes about unpredictable weather, shopping excursions, and the simple pleasure of people-watching, this episode captures the essence of travel through the lens of food, friendship, and discovery—proving that sometimes the most unforgettable travel experiences happen when you simply follow your appetite.


  • (00:50) - - Show intro & previous episode connection
  • (02:14) - - First international trip experience
  • (05:56) - - Planning a chill itinerary in Taipei
  • (11:35) - - Food tourism at its finest
  • (15:03) - - Walkable cities and public spaces
  • (22:26) - - The incredible fish market experience
  • (27:41) - - Weather changes and packing challenges


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4 months ago
31 minutes

DINKWAP Show
The Philippines Price Paradox: Why Travel and Healthcare Cost More Than They Should | 013

Join hosts Rem and Alvia as they dive into a Reddit thread about things in the Philippines that are unreasonably expensive. From local travel costing more than international trips, to the healthcare system that puts lives at risk, to the struggle of eating healthy on a budget - the duo shares personal experiences and candid insights about everyday financial challenges. This episode offers a thoughtful, relatable look at how cost barriers affect quality of life in the Philippines, all delivered with the hosts' signature blend of humor and authenticity.


  • (00:00) - - Intro
  • (02:33) - - Topic introduction: What's too expensive in the Philippines?
  • (03:37) - - Local travel costs compared to international destinations
  • (10:48) - - Healthcare and hospitalization expenses
  • (23:00) - - Internet speeds and reliability issues
  • (28:16) - - The high cost of eating healthy


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4 months ago
35 minutes

DINKWAP Show
The Breadwinner Burden: Exploring Family Financial Dynamics | 012

Join hosts Rem and Alvia as they delve into the complex dynamics of Filipino family relationships and financial independence. In this candid discussion, they explore the cultural phenomenon of adult children supporting their parents, the challenges of establishing boundaries, and the delicate balance between filial duty and personal growth. Through personal stories and thoughtful insights, this episode examines how different generations navigate family obligations while building their own lives. A heartfelt conversation about family ties, cultural expectations, and the journey toward independence in the modern Filipino context.


  • (00:00) - - Introduction
  • (02:01) - - The "Failure to Launch" phenomenon in Filipino culture
  • (08:42) - - Managing family finances and expectations
  • (15:30) - - Setting boundaries with parents
  • (23:45) - - Finding balance between independence and family obligations
  • (27:15) - - Final thoughts and reflection


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4 months ago
29 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Living with Filipino Parents: Control vs. Freedom | 011

In this episode of The DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia dive deep into Filipino family dynamics and the cultural expectations around living at home. They explore the delicate balance between familial bonds and personal independence, sharing candid stories about their experiences with parental control, career growth, and the journey toward autonomy. Through honest conversation and thoughtful reflection, they examine how traditional Filipino values intersect with modern aspirations for independence. A relatable discussion for anyone navigating the complexities of family relationships while building their own path in life.


  • (00:00) - - Intro & Cultural Context
  • (03:02) - - Work-Life Balance Struggles
  • (07:15) - - Parental Control & Personal Space
  • (15:45) - - Learning Independence
  • (20:30) - - Life Lessons & Safety in Manila


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5 months ago
26 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Moving Out in Filipino Culture: When is the Right Time? | 010

In this candid conversation, hosts Rem and Alvia explore the cultural and economic realities of leaving the family home in the Philippines. From discussing the stark differences between Western and Filipino expectations around moving out, to sharing personal stories about commuting struggles and financial independence, this episode offers an honest look at how young professionals navigate adult life while balancing cultural traditions with modern pressures. Join them as they unpack the complexities of housing costs, side gigs, and the evolving definition of independence in Filipino society.

  • (00:00) - - Intro
  • (01:01) - - Age of moving out
  • (04:26) - - Western vs Filipino culture
  • (10:15) - - Financial realities of independence
  • (15:30) - - Side hustles and earning potential
  • (20:45) - - Living arrangements & family dynamics

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5 months ago
25 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Finding Peace Over Sparks: A Journey Through Mature Relationships | 009

Join us for an unforgettable episode of The DINKWAP Show, where hosts Rem, Alvia, and their ever-enthusiastic friend Des delve into the unpredictable yet enlightening journey of relationships. With humor and a touch of vulnerability, they explore the nuances of modern love, from spontaneous encounters in vibrant locales to the trials of long-distance commitments. 


In this spirited discussion, you'll hear firsthand tales of life’s whimsical moments, including the quirky aftermath of a wild night ala Las Vegas and the laughter-filled chaos of navigating romantic pursuits in your twenties and thirties. They reflect on the maturity that comes with experience, the value of friendship, and the realization that true happiness often lies in the mundane.


Whether you’re currently in a relationship, dating, or enjoying single life, this episode is sure to resonate with anyone who has ever sought connection amidst life’s delightful unpredictability. So sit back, relax, and enjoy a candid conversation about love, laughter, and the lessons we learn along the way. Tune in now—let's embark on this journey together!

  • (00:00) - - Episode Previews
  • (03:00) - - Navigating Relationships from High School to Adulthood
  • (09:00) - - First Impressions in Boracay
  • (12:00) - - Long-Distance Relationship Challenges
  • (21:00) - - Debunking Dating Myths Post-Pandemic
  • (30:00) - - The Quest for Peace in Relationships
  • (35:00) - - Wrapping Up: The Importance of Friendship

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5 months ago
35 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Love, Loss & Lessons: A Journey Through Our 20s | 008

Join us for a riveting episode of The DINKWAP Show, where our hosts delve candidly into the complexities of dating in your early 20s. In this heartfelt conversation, our guest Des shares her personal journey through love and heartbreak, revealing the lessons learned from both fleeting romances and serious relationships. With a mix of humor and sincerity, the hosts tackle topics like the all-too-familiar dating rules, the challenges of transitioning from college to adulthood, and the intricacies of navigating emotional turbulence. 


This episode captures the essence of youthful exploration and self-discovery, inviting listeners to reflect on their own experiences while enjoying lively banter between friends. Tune in for an engaging and relatable discussion that balances the serious and the light-hearted, perfect for anyone reminiscing about their journey through love and life.

  • (00:00) - - Opening banter about the "three-month rule"
  • (02:40) - - Des opens up about dating right after a serious relationship
  • (03:54) - - The story of Des's first serious heartbreak
  • (08:00) - - Exploring dating through parties and events
  • (10:30) - - The cultural aspects of dating across nationalities
  • (18:00) - - Reflections on growth and maturity in relationships
  • (23:00) - - Why clean breaks are essential after a breakup
  • (30:50) - - Wrap-up and signing off

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5 months ago
32 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Learning to Love: Confessions from Our College Years | 007

In this candid episode of The DINKWAP Show, three friends reminisce about their early dating experiences during and after college. With humor and honesty, they explore the awkward encounters, questionable decisions, and valuable lessons learned in their early 20s. Join them as they discuss how age, maturity, and friendship shaped their romantic journeys and perspectives on relationships. A relatable conversation about finding yourself while trying to find love.

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (01:14) - College dating experiences
  • (04:59) - The challenges of dating in your early 20s
  • (13:40) - The church movie incident
  • (21:35) - Learning from past relationships
  • (27:34) - Words of wisdom for 20-somethings

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6 months ago
29 minutes

DINKWAP Show
First Heartbreaks and Pet Names: Dating Stories from College Years | 006

Join us for another captivating episode of The DINKWAP Show, where hosts Rem, Alvia, and Des delve into the complexities of relationships, nostalgia, and the lessons learned along the way. In this episode, the trio reflects on their high school and college dating experiences, sharing humorous anecdotes and heartfelt moments that reveal the fragility of youth and the bittersweet nature of first loves.


As they navigate through tales of crushes, misunderstandings, and the trials of being a "sadboi," listeners will find themselves reminiscing about their own formative years. With a blend of wit and sincerity, the hosts explore the impact of friendships, the significance of pet names, and the sometimes painful lessons that come with growing up.


Tune in for a delightful mix of laughter and introspection, as The DINKWAP Show continues to celebrate the journey of love and friendship in all its forms.

  • (00:00) - - Introduction and Fragility Discussion
  • (01:16) - - The Blue Magic Story
  • (02:27) - - High School Dating Experiences
  • (04:51) - - College Dating Challenges
  • (10:47) - - Rem's Heartfelt Story
  • (19:11) - - The Loan That Led to Heartbreak
  • (24:33) - - Reflections on Youth and Relationships
  • (25:21) - - Closing Remarks

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6 months ago
26 minutes

DINKWAP Show
High School Confessions: Dating, Crushes, and Blue Magic | 005

Relive the awkward, hilarious, and surprisingly relatable journey of first loves and dating blunders in this week's DINKWAP Show episode!  Alvia, Rem, and Des delve into their high school dating experiences, sharing stories of  puppy love, clandestine relationships, and the infamous "Blue Magic" teddy bears.  From origami love letters to the unspoken rules of high school courtship, this episode is a nostalgic trip down memory lane with plenty of laughs. Listen in as they unpack the differences between dating in their early twenties versus their late twenties, and discover why Rem has been "restless" all week.  Prepare for a candid conversation that’s both endearing and entertaining.

  • (00:02) - Preview and Introduction
  • (01:44) - Find out why Des, their only friend, was unexpectedly invited to this episode.
  • (03:40) - Girl math is explained - how a simple dinner led to two bottles of wine.
  • (04:38) - Rem's restless week and his surprising reflections on dating are discussed.
  • (05:50) - Hear their stories of high school dating and the unique challenges of attending Catholic schools.
  • (12:44) - Discover what "Blue Magic" is and why it was a big deal in high school.
  • (18:40) - Alvia shares her first official boyfriend and the realities of dating in college.
  • (22:20) - Learn about the differences in dating culture between their generation and Gen Z.

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6 months ago
28 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Childfree by Choice, Childless by Circumstance: A DINK Perspective | 004

On this week's episode of The DINKWAP Show, Rem and Alvia delve into the diverse realities of childless couples.  They challenge societal expectations surrounding family structures, sharing personal anecdotes and insightful perspectives on the pressures faced by DINKs (Dual Income No Kids) – from those who've chosen this path to those who haven't had the same choice.  A candid and empathetic conversation that explores the complexities of family planning and the importance of respecting individual choices.  Join them as they navigate the joys and challenges of a life less ordinary, and maybe even learn a thing or two about the Filipino version of "Defying Gravity."

  • (00:00) - Preview and Intro
  • (01:39) - Couples Who Want Children But Can't
  • (04:30) - The Challenges Faced by Same-Sex Couples
  • (11:35) - Societal Pressures & The Importance of Choice

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6 months ago
14 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Navigating the DINK Life: A Candid Conversation on Adoption | 003

Join Rem and Alvia on this week's DINKWAP Show as they delve into a deeply personal conversation about their decision not to have biological children and the possibility of adoption.  With their signature blend of humor and heartfelt honesty, they explore the complexities of family planning, societal expectations, and the rewarding journey of opening their hearts and home to a child in need.  Prepare for laughter, thoughtful reflection, and a refreshing perspective on modern family dynamics.

  • (00:00) - Introduction and DINKWAP Life
  • (01:07) - Adoption Discussion Begins
  • (03:21) - Alvia Explains PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome)
  • (10:49) - Hilarious Government Agency Mix-Up
  • (12:01) - Adoption Process in the Philippines
  • (14:34) - Addressing the Stigma Around Adoption
  • (18:51) - The Purest Form of Love
  • (20:05) - Conclusion

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6 months ago
21 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Generational Trauma & the Choice to Parent | 002

Picking up where they left off, Rem and Alvia tackle a serious subject with their signature blend of humor and heartfelt honesty:  Should they have kids? This episode of the DINKWAP Show is a rollercoaster of candid confessions, relatable anxieties, and unexpected tangents (memes are involved).  Join the conversation as they unpack the realities of modern parenthood and ponder the ultimate question: Is it all worth it?

  • (00:32) - Intro
  • (01:18) - Discussing the "grind years" and ideal age for parenthood
  • (02:41) - The influence of societal emphasis on trauma and mental health
  • (03:16) - Rem's fears about passing on trauma to a child
  • (05:28) - Emotional maturity in parenting
  • (08:09) - The impact of social media
  • (18:09) - The big question: Adoption vs. biological children?

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6 months ago
19 minutes

DINKWAP Show
Introducing the DINKWAP Show: A Podcast for Childfree Couples | 001

Ever wondered what life looks like as a Dual Income, No Kids couple in the Philippines?  Rem and Alvia, in their debut episode of the DINKWAP Show, offer a glimpse into their lives, sharing the funny and serious sides of their child-free choice.  From societal pressures to personal reflections, they tackle it all with humor and honesty, promising a refreshing take on relationships and life choices.

  • (00:16) - Intro and Podcast Explanation
  • (02:04) - What does DINKWAP mean?
  • (03:01) - Rem and Alvia's personal reasons for choosing a child-free life
  • (08:59) - The inspiration behind "The DINKWAP Show"
  • (10:09) - A deeper dive into their individual perspectives on parenthood

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6 months ago
19 minutes

DINKWAP Show

Join Rem and Alvia as they navigate the joys and perils of adulthood as a married millennial DINK couple in the Philippines, while also trying to break the stigma against the DINK lifestyle or being childless by choice. We tackle challenges like facing adult responsibilities, managing finances, growing careers, breaking generational traumas, generating social impact, cultivating relationships, and determining who should be washing the dishes.

DINKWAP stands for Dual-Income No Kids with a Podcast!

Are you a DINK, SINK, or DINK-curious? Join us at DINK Lifestyle Philippines.