- “When you don’t have language for a feeling or expression, then you think it’s wrong.” Today’s guest, Seija Rohkea, brilliantly shares why self-expression is at the foundation of living authentically. Thanks to their willingness to explore gender identity, cultural limitations, and learn a new paradigm, Seija has found major healing and happiness. We explore the deepest aspects of what it means to experience life in complete, radical honesty. Listen in and learn why finding words for feelings is vital, how to embrace self-love, and why finding the right channels for support is key! Highlights: [02:11] Seija shares their experience of gender identity from childhood onwards [14:58] How studying art and the impact of colonization intersected with Seija’s personal journey. [20:00] Why the evolution of language and terminology in the LGBTQIA+ community has allowed for more precise expression. [23:58] How suicidal ideations and attempts precipitated massive changes in Seija’s life. [30:26] Why teaching and producing art increased Seija’s level of self-worth and wholeness. [35:12] The importance of expressing, sharing, and getting support when exploring gender identity. [40:39] How renegotiating their gender identity has massively helped Seija live a more authentic life. [46:19] Why Seija’s deep respect for learning and education played a role in helping their marriage thrive. [52:53] The power and importance of finding the right channels for care and support. [58:42] Why self confidence starts with loving the way you look and feel. [1:04:26] What should you do if you accidentally misgender someone or use incorrect pronouns?[1:08:42] Resources for help should you or someone you know need it. Resources for help!
Long Beach LGBTQ Center
Phone: 562-434-4455
Email:CenterLB.org
SuicidePreventionLifeline.org
Phone: 1-800-273-8255
National Sexual Assault Organization
Rainn.org
Phone:1-800-656-4673
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