There’s something I hear often — and most parents don’t even realize they’re doing it. It sounds like this:“You never listen.”“You always do this.”“No one else has this problem.” In this episode, I’m unpacking one of the most common parenting mistakes I see — and how the words we say (even casually) can quietly shape our children’s identity, confidence, and emotional health. It’s not about being perfect — it’s about being more mindful of the things we say when we think they’re not listening.