In this exploration of marriage, we delve into the often-overlooked topic of expectations. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 7, we're reminded that marital duties are to be mutually fulfilled, but who defines these duties? This is where expectations come into play. We all carry a 'bin' of expectations into our relationships, some realistic, some negotiable, and some potentially unhealthy. By examining these expectations, we're challenged to communicate openly with our partners and negotiate flexibly. The key spiritual lesson here is the importance of selflessness in marriage - it's not about an individual winning or losing, but about the relationship winning. This message encourages us to bring our expectations to light, discuss them with our partners, and be willing to adjust for the sake of a stronger, more Christ-centered union. It's a powerful reminder that marriage, like our faith journey, requires continuous effort, communication, and surrender to God's plan.