This is our Origin Stories episode. Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of their lives. We explain how we discovered ENM (ethical non-monogamy), survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus, but also how we learned to communicate to each other fearlessly, established trust and practiced standing up for ourselves, over and over again. Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut party - just yet or ever - and that’s fine, every relationship is beautiful and unique as is. We just want to use our unconventional and “a little out there” stories to help you explore what’s possible, providing ideas that can empower everybody. Our recommendation is: take what resonates and works for you, and leave out the rest! == TIME STAMPS 02:10 You Should Listen If... 02:33 How Will Started Exploring Unconventional Relationships 05:37 Chiara's Journey From Her Catholic Roots 08:21 From Fantasy To Reality 09:53 Always Communicate Clearly 11:37 Sexperts Night 13:15 Visiting Fun4Two Swingers Club 14:14 The Dark Room 15:58 The Hot Tub Incident 18:50 Allie's Journey From Small Town Girl 21:47 If We Cheat We Cheat Together 23:09 An Eyes Wide Shut Party Gone Sideways 27:30 Connecting With Others - Together - Could Strengthen Your Relationship 32:12 Play Parties Can Enhance Your Body Confidence 33:49 Tips On How To Test The Waters In Sex Positive Spaces 34:42 Is It for Everyone? 36:49 The Thrill of Exploration: Keeping the Spark Alive 41:15 What We Learnt == >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist == FREE DOWNLOAD: “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” == >> Follow us on Instagram == For more info about the hosts, and to book a free chemistry call, visit deeperlovers.com