What if the real reason you're exhausted isn’t your job, but the invisible emotional labor you’ve been carrying for everyone else? In this raw and vulnerable solo episode, Marina opens up about her own burnout—not from overworking, but from being the fixer, the emotional container, and the one who always says “yes.”
This is a conversation for the silent supporters. The ones who grew up too soon, who manage everyone else’s stress while ignoring their own. Marina shares the painful yet liberating truth about the toll this emotional responsibility takes on your nervous system—and what happens when you finally stop.
She talks about grief, guilt, shame, and the unexpected discomfort of being supported after years of self-sacrifice. Whether you've been the emotional anchor in your family, your relationships, or your community, this episode will help you reclaim your energy, redefine responsibility, and begin the journey toward rest, reciprocity, and nervous system safety.
You are not selfish for choosing ease. You are not wrong for wanting to be held too. You’re just finally learning to be free.
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TRIGGERED TO ROOTED: A ROADMAP TO CREATE TREASURES FROM YOUR TRIGGERS
This powerful step by step process will walk you through how to somatically move through a trigger, ground yourself, allow the emotions to come up and experience massive growth in your life
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Top Episode Quotes:
“There is very real burnout that comes from carrying the nervous systems of other people.”
“Fixing doesn’t feel like work—until your nervous system breaks down.”
“Letting go of emotional responsibility isn’t easy. It’s grief, growth, and radical rest.”
“Your life doesn’t have to feel hard to be valid. Ease is not a betrayal—it’s a birthright.”
“The transition from fixer to free is messy, heartbreaking, and completely worth it.”
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