So, here’s the tea: I once dated a guy who had 8 kids (yes...8). He also had a volatile ex, and a demanding job with insane hours. Between late-night hangouts after his shifts and babysitting his two giant dogs (because his place wouldn’t allow pets), I twisted myself into a pretzel trying to keep up with the chaos. Spoiler alert: it didn’t work. We eventually admitted he wasn’t emotionally available, and I had to face the fact that no amount of magnetic chemistry could fix what wasn’t right. 

Once I stepped back, I had a major "aha" moment. I wasn’t just drawn to him...I was drawn to the chaos. Growing up in a whirlwind household with 4 kids and two constantly-on-the-go executive parents, chaos was my comfort zone. Add a past relationship with a narcissist into the mix, and I’d spent years hustling for love and validation, convinced that meeting everyone else’s needs was the key to feeling worthy. 

Sound familiar? Do you keep finding yourself replaying the same tired dating script—different face, same emotionally unavailable guy? Let me tell you, it’s not just bad luck. It’s about the stories we’re carrying, and until you rewrite them, you’ll keep attracting the same drama in a different package. 

But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be this way. Enter Soni Pelty, certified relationship coach and founder of Limitless Love with Soni. Soni is the fierce, unapologetic guide you didn’t know you needed. She’s here to help you untangle those toxic narratives, break free from those generational chains, and uncover who you really are—your true, radiant, limitless self.

Soni’s story begins with an arranged marriage—a cultural expectation she didn’t question until misery forced her to. Taking a bold step, she became the first in her family to reclaim her power and walk away. Suddenly single in her 40s, she entered the dating world for the very first time. What happened next? Let’s just say it’s a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and transformation.

Through her innovative coaching and personal story, Soni helps women rewrite their love narratives, step into their worth, and attract the deep, soul-nourishing love they deserve. She’s here to show you why settling is never an option—and why soaring is your birthright. Today, she’s spilling all the wisdom that can help you do the same.

In this episode, Soni teaches us:

1. Unconditional love starts with loving yourself first, free from societal norms or outdated notions about relationships. You have the power to create the love story you deserve. 
2. Feminine energy is about receiving, not doing. Let men step into their natural role as caretakers by creating space for them to give, rather than taking charge of every aspect of the relationship. 
3. Instead of focusing solely on what you want in a partner, reflect on the unique qualities you bring to the table. Confidence in your worth sets the foundation for healthier relationships. 
4. Your life should be rich with friends, hobbies, and passions. Dating should complement your life, not consume it. Think of dating as one small part of your larger journey. 
5. Before dating, define who you are and what you truly want through a personal mission statement. Date from a space of clarity and self-awareness, and explore multiple connections (carousel dating) to find the right fit.

For more of Soni:

Website | limitlesslovewithsoni.com

Instagram | @limitlesslovewithsoni

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