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De-Stress the Nest
Hannah Morgan
60 episodes
1 week ago
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De-Stress the Nest
Ep. 60 - How to Ditch the Travel Mom Guilt with Helen Harmetz

Episode 60 – How to Ditch the Travel Mom Guilt with Helen Harmetz


In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with executive coach and working parent, Helen Harmetz, about navigating the mom guilt that often comes with work or personal travel. Helen shares how to set clear expectations, build supportive systems at home, and reframe guilt so you can be present where you are.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • Guilt often comes from expectations — not reality.
  • Clear partnership systems help everyone feel supported.
  • Letting go of control while traveling allows you to show up better for work and home.


💬 Quotes from Helen Harmetz:

  • "We are our own harshest critics — grace goes a long way.”
  • “You don’t need to ask for permission to take up space in your own life.”
  • “Your family can thrive even when you’re not physically home.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

  • Helen Harmetz — Mind the Beet: Executive coach for working parents and tech professionals. Connect with Helen on Instagram @mindthebeet.
  • Heron House Management: Virtual house management for busy families: we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full transcript available: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-60
📅 New episodes every Tuesday
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1 week ago
11 minutes 14 seconds

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Ep. 59 - Gender Inequity in the Mental Load at Home with Paige Connell

Episode 59 – Gender Inequality in the Mental Load at Home with Paige Connell

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with content creator and thought leader Paige Connell about how gender equity and the mental load of parenting are deeply intertwined. Paige shares how societal expectations and systemic barriers contribute to women carrying more unpaid labor at home — and what it takes to create more equitable partnerships that value everyone’s time equally.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Gender equity at home and work are deeply connected.

– Unpaid labor must be valued the same as paid time.

– Open, blame-free conversations are key to lasting change.


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Paige Connell (@sheisapaigeturner)

– Heron House Management⁠⁠ 


📝 Full transcript available at:

www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-59

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2 weeks ago
9 minutes 20 seconds

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Ep. 58 - The Mental Load of Managing Your Kids' Wardrobes with Stacey Blea

🎙️ Episode 58 – The Mental Load of Managing Your Kids’ Wardrobe with Stacey Blea

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with Stacey Blea, founder of ThreadCount, about the invisible mental load parents carry when managing their kids’ clothes. Stacey shares the systems that inspired her to build a practical, time-saving app to track what your children have, what they need, and where it’s stored — helping families save time, money, and mental energy.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Managing kids’ clothing is an ongoing mental load for parents.

– Treating wardrobes like an inventory system saves time and reduces double-buying.

– The ThreadCount app gives visibility into what you own, need, store, and can share.


💬 Quotes from Stacey Blea:

– “No company would expect you to manage hundreds of items across three locations from memory — yet that’s what parents do every season.”

– “Once an item is in the system, it lives there until you’re ready to sell, donate, or hand it down.”

– “Reducing the mental load starts with visibility — knowing what you have and where it is.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– ThreadCount App

– Heron House Management


📝 Full transcript available on our website:

www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-58

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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3 weeks ago
12 minutes 54 seconds

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Ep. 57 - The 52/17 Focus Technique with Mary Ellen Knauff

🎙️ Episode 57 – The 52/17 Focus Technique with Mary Ellen Knauff

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with productivity expert and working mom Mary Ellen Knauff about one of her favorite time management tools — the 52/17 Focus Technique. Mary Ellen explains how focusing deeply for 52 minutes and resting for 17 helps working parents maximize productivity and maintain energy throughout the day.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– The 52/17 Focus Technique promotes deep work followed by meaningful rest.

– Morning is the best time for long-focus sessions when willpower is highest.

– Turning off notifications and using fewer screens reduces distraction.


💬 Quotes from Mary Ellen Knauff:

– “Five-minute breaks never feel long enough to recharge — 17 minutes lets your brain rest and reset.”

– “Focus is like willpower — it fades throughout the day.”

– “When you come back from a break, leave yourself a note: start here next.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Mary Ellen Knauff: Productivity expert helping working moms with sustainable time management tools.

– Heron House Management⁠: A virtual house management service designed to reduce mental load and stress for busy families.


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-57

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💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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4 weeks ago
8 minutes 6 seconds

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Ep. 56 - Creating Balanced Routines with Kids with Nick Loper

🎙️ Episode 56 – Creating Balanced Routines with Kids with Nick Loper

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with Side Hustle Show host and dad of two, Nick Loper, about creating balanced routines for kids. Nick shares how simple structure — not strict schedules — helps his family move through summer and school days with more calm, connection, and consistency.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Routines don’t have to be rigid — focus on rhythm and predictability.

– Short, intentional morning screen time can set a calm tone for the day.

– Visual checklists empower kids to take ownership of daily tasks.


💬 Quotes from Nick Loper:

– “This isn’t a 5 a.m. miracle routine — it’s the family version.”

– “Writing is thinking — we use journal prompts to help our kids practice both.”

– “Structure the day, not every minute — it keeps everyone calmer.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Nick Loper – Side Hustle Nation

– Heron House Management


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-56

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1 month ago
9 minutes 8 seconds

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Ep. 55 - Communication for Connection With Your Kids with Lisa Reichelt

🎙️ Episode 55 – Communication for Connection With Your Kids with Lisa Reichelt

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan talks with parenting coach Lisa Reichelt about repairing communication breakdowns and building lasting connection with your kids. Lisa shares three key areas parents can focus on — what you do together, what you talk about, and how you simply “be” together. From entering into your child’s world to asking before giving advice, Lisa offers practical, compassionate strategies for building trust and stronger relationships at every age.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Strong relationships require intentional communication.

– Connection grows when you show genuine interest in your child’s passions.

– Asking before giving advice empowers kids and builds trus

💬 Quotes from Lisa Reichelt:

– “You can’t have a strong relationship with someone you don’t communicate well with.”

– “Ask your child: are you venting, or do you want advice?”

– “Sometimes the most powerful way to connect is simply being present.”

📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Champion Your Parenting⁠ – Coaching, tools, and support to help parents reduce conflict and build strong, lasting relationships with their kids.

– ⁠Heron House Management⁠⁠ – Virtual house management for busy families: we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.

📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-55

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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1 month ago
10 minutes 46 seconds

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Ep. 54 - Focusing on the Basic Needs First with Carly Buxton

🎙️ Episode 54 – Focusing on the Basic Needs First with Carly Buxton

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan chats with Carly Buxton, co-founder and CEO of Parent Swarm. Carly shares her framework for “protecting the basics” — a set of simple, non-negotiable habits that help her stay grounded during times of stress and chaos. From prioritizing sleep and food to carving out small moments of exercise, Carly shows how meeting your most essential needs first can make everything else more manageable.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– When life feels overwhelming, strip back to core needs first.

– Sleep, nutrition, and exercise form a foundation for resilience.

– Writing down your “basics” gives you a quick reference point on hard days.


💬 Quotes from Carly Buxton:

– “When everything feels chaotic, I return to my basics — sleep, food, and exercise.”

– “If I can focus on these core needs, my stress level drops and I show up better for my family.”

– “Protecting the basics means stripping things down to what truly supports you.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Parent Swarm

– Heron House Management


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-54

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1 month ago
7 minutes 45 seconds

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Ep. 53 - Systems Thinking for Minimizing Stress at Home with Courtney Cecil

🎙️ Episode 53 – Systems Thinking for Minimizing Stress at Home with Courtney Cecil

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan sits down with Courtney Cecil, Fortune 50 executive, systems engineer, and founder of the Working Moms Movement. Courtney explains how the same efficiency and clarity we use at work can transform our home lives. From identifying recurring pain points to creating simple, repeatable systems, she shares how to reduce stress, prevent conflict, and free up energy for what matters most.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Systems shouldn’t just live at work — they can make home life smoother, too.

– Start where the pain is: fix the problems that show up daily or cause the most frustration.

– Clear roles, repeatable processes, and predictability reduce resentment and chaos at home.

💬 Quotes from Courtney Cecil:

– “When you get systems right at home, life becomes smoother and more predictable.”

– “Start where the pain is — solve the problems that keep popping up.”

– “Processes bring clarity and reduce resentment, because everyone knows their role.”

📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Working Moms Movement – Courtney’s coaching and programs

– ⁠The Life Management System for Working Moms – Courtney’s podcast

– Heron House Management — Virtual house management for busy families — we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.

📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-53

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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2 months ago
10 minutes 9 seconds

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Ep. 52 - Weekend Planning with Your Partner with Miranda Bayard-Clark

🎙️ Episode 52 – Weekend Planning with Your Partner with Miranda Bayard-Clark

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan sits down with Miranda Bayard-Clark, a preventative couples coach who helps parents protect and strengthen their relationships. Miranda shares why weekends are a common source of conflict for couples and how a simple Friday check-in can prevent tension and ensure both partners’ needs are met. You’ll also learn how to handle misalignment in the moment, so weekends feel more restful, balanced, and connected.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Most weekend conflicts stem from unspoken expectations.

– A quick Friday conversation can align priorities and avoid tension.

– In-the-moment transparency helps reset when misalignment happens.

💬 Quotes from Miranda Bayard-Clark:

– “The greatest gift you can give your kids is a strong relationship between the two of you.”

– “Most of the conflict occurs on the weekend, because expectations were never communicated.”

– “A simple Friday conversation — ‘what do you hope to get out of the weekend?’ — can prevent so much tension.”

📚 Resources Mentioned:

–  Love After Lullabies - Miranda’s coaching, courses and resources

– Heron House Management — Virtual house management for busy families — we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.

📝 Full transcript: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-52

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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2 months ago
5 minutes 52 seconds

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Ep. 51 - Personalizing Time Management Strategies with Jill Wright

🎙️ Episode 51 – Personalizing Time Management with Jill Wright

In this episode, host Hannah Morgan sits down with time management coach and mom of four, Jill Wright. Jill shares how moms can adapt productivity strategies to their real-life circumstances, avoid burnout, and make time management feel supportive rather than stressful. She introduces her four time management archetypes and explains how small, personalized shifts can help you reclaim your time with more ease and confidence.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Time management is not one-size-fits-all — it needs to adapt to your current season of life.

– Knowing your archetype helps you choose strategies that fit your natural strengths and challenges.

– Small, consistent changes aligned with your style build habits and free up mental space.


💬 Quotes from Jill Wright:

– “Seasons change, and our time management needs to change too.”

– “It’s not about trying all 200 productivity hacks—it’s about finding the three that actually move the needle for you.”

– “When your time management aligns with your personality, it doesn’t feel like work. It feels like freedom.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Jill Wright⁠ – Time management coaching tailored for busy moms — discover your archetype, align habits with your life season, and move forward with clarity and ease.

– ⁠Connect with Jill on Instagram – @growlikeamother

– ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Heron House Management⁠ – Virtual house management for busy families — we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-51

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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2 months ago
9 minutes 27 seconds

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Ep. 50 - Cycle Syncing for Better Balance with Samantha Gaunt

🎙️ Episode 50 – Cycle Syncing for Better Balance with Samantha Gaunt


In this episode, host Hannah Morgan sits down with cycle syncing coach, wife, and mom of five, Samantha Gaunt. Samantha shares how women can align their work and home life with their natural rhythms for greater productivity, less stress, and more balance. From understanding the four phases of the menstrual cycle to learning how to plan tasks, meals, and even social events around your energy, Samantha provides a practical roadmap to thrive without burnout.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Traditional routines don’t always work because women’s energy naturally shifts throughout the month.

– Cycle syncing helps you know when to rest, when to create, and when to connect with others.

– Delegation, planning ahead, and honoring your energy level are powerful tools for reducing overwhelm.


💬 Quotes from Samantha Gaunt:

– “When we try to force ourselves into a one-size-fits-all routine, we end up feeling frustrated, exhausted, and even guilty for not keeping up.”

– “Asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s one of the greatest powers we have as women.”

– “Once you start syncing your tasks with your cycle, you stop swimming upstream and begin flowing with your natural rhythm.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Samantha on Instagram: @the.samantha.gaunt

– https://www.samanthagaunt.com/

– Virtual house management for busy families — we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-50

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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2 months ago
13 minutes 38 seconds

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Ep. 49 - Modeling Setting Healthy Boundaries with Dr. Anne Welsh

🎙️ Episode 49 – Modeling Setting Healthy Boundaries with Dr. Anne Welsh

Parenting coach and boundaries expert Dr. Anne Welsh joins host Hannah Morgan to share how saying “no” can protect your time, reduce stress, and teach your kids to respect their own limits. Together, they explore how daily choices — from PTA sign-ups to household routines — shape the way children learn about balance, priorities, and self-care.


🔑 Key Takeaways:– Boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re a form of modeling healthy behavior for your kids– Micro-moments at home shape your children’s understanding of roles and responsibilities– A “heck yes” filter can help you decide which commitments are worth your time– Choosing a monthly “top 3 priorities” keeps you focused and prevents overwhelm


💬 Quotes from Dr. Welsh:“Your limits don’t make you a bad mom — they make you human.”“When you protect your time, you show your kids it’s okay to do the same.”“You don’t have to carry a list of 300 to-dos — pick your top three and let the rest go.”“Those little daily moments create the foundation for how your kids see boundaries.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– Dr. Anne Welsh’s coaching services

– De-Stress the Nest Podcast Archive

– ⁠Heron House Management – Virtual house management for busy families — we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full transcript available on our website

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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3 months ago
9 minutes 15 seconds

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Ep. 48 - Managing (Your Own) Expectations for Success with Liz Kent

🎙️ Episode 48 – Managing (Your Own) Expectations for Success with Liz Kent

Licensed therapist and maternal mental health coach Liz Kent joins host Hannah Morgan to share how unrealistic expectations can sabotage your confidence, connection, and joy in motherhood. Together, they unpack the pressure to “do it all” — and how letting go of perfection can help you feel more grounded, present, and fulfilled at home.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Unrealistic expectations are often absorbed from culture, family, and social media

– Self-compassion is key: Talk to yourself the way you'd talk to a friend

– Everyone's life looks different behind the scenes — your “success” should, too

– Letting go of shoulds helps you make confident, aligned decisions for your family


💬 Quotes from Liz:

“We’re all human — we all fall short sometimes.”

“Would you talk to your best friend the way you're talking to yourself?”

“Make decisions based on your family’s needs — not what you think you ‘should’ be doing.”

“Nobody is doing it all. They might just have more help behind the scenes.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

– ⁠Liz Kent Coaching⁠: Therapy and coaching support for moms navigating the mental load

– Heron House Management: Virtual house management that helps you simplify your home life so you can focus on what matters most


📝 Full transcript available on our website: www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-48

📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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3 months ago
8 minutes 35 seconds

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Ep. 47 - Fostering True Connection in Your Marriage with Michelle Purta

🎙️ Episode 47 – Fostering True Connection in Your Marriage with Michelle Purta

In this episode, marriage coach Michelle Purta shares simple but powerful strategies to reconnect with your partner — even during the chaotic parenting years. From micro-connections to Costco dates, Michelle explains how small, intentional moments can make a big difference in your relationship.


🔑 Key Takeaways:– Don’t wait for “someday” to prioritize your marriage– Micro-connection is the glue between big moments– Stronger connection leads to better communication– Love languages can be a game changer in daily life


💬 Quotes from Michelle:

“Your marriage is the foundation of your family.”“Connection doesn’t have to be big — it has to be consistent.”“Date night is what you make of it.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:– Michelle Purta Coaching: marriage coaching and resources for moms– Love Languages Assessment by Gary Chapman– Heron House Management: virtual house management for busy families


📝 Full Transcript: view here

📅 Episodes released weekly on Tuesdays
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3 months ago
8 minutes 47 seconds

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Ep. 46 - Planning a Stress-Free Vacation with Nick Loper

🎙️ Episode 46 – Planning a Stress-Free Vacation with Nick Loper


Nick Loper from Side Hustle Nation shares his favorite tips for low-stress family travel. Learn how planning ahead and involving your kids can create more joy and fewer meltdowns.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Planning ahead brings peace of mind and excitement

– Seasonal school breaks help narrow vacation ideas

– Kids stay more engaged when they help plan

– Use calendars to reduce decision fatigue


💬 Favorite Quotes:

> “If you don’t put it on the calendar, it doesn’t happen.”

> “Anticipation is half the fun.”

> “Let the kids help plan.”


📚 Resources:

– Side Hustle Nation: A community and resource hub for people building extra income streams.

– The Side Hustle Show: A podcast featuring stories and tips from successful side hustlers.

– Heron House Management: Virtual house management for busy families: we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full transcript: https://www.heronhousemanagement.com/podcast/episode-46


📅 New episodes every Tuesday

💛 Sponsored by Heron House Management

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3 months ago
10 minutes 1 second

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Ep. 45 - Tools for Dealing with Parenting Conflict with Lisa Reichelt

🎙️ Episode 45 – Tools for Dealing with Parenting Conflict with Lisa Reichelt


Parenting coach Lisa Reichelt shares 5 practical strategies to reduce conflict and create more calm at home. Learn how your response shapes your child’s behavior—and why silence, empathy, and questions are powerful tools.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Lower your voice to de-escalate

– Create silence to spark reflection

– Ask questions to give kids ownership

– Lead with empathy, not reactivity


💬 Quotes from Lisa:

> “Your child will respond differently when you respond differently.”

> “Silence is powerful — it gives your child space to reflect.”

> “Empathy isn’t giving in — it’s role modeling right relationships.”


📚 Resources:

Champion Your Parenting – Coaching, tools, and support to help parents reduce conflict and build strong, lasting relationships with their kids.
Heron House Management⁠ – Virtual house management for busy families: we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full Transcript:

Read the full transcript HERE


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4 months ago
8 minutes 55 seconds

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Ep. 44 - Aligning Our Time to Our Values with Courtney Cecil

🎙️ Episode 44 – Aligning Our Time to Our Values with Courtney Cecil


In this episode, coach and podcast host Courtney Cecil shares how working parents can align their time with what matters most. Learn how defining your family values can lead to less stress, clearer decision-making, and more meaningful time.


🔑 Key Takeaways:

– Your time, money, and energy should reflect your values

– Aligning with your partner helps reduce conflict

– Start with your long-term vision, then work backward

– Say no with confidence by knowing what you’re saying yes to


💬 Quotes from Courtney:

> “Knowing your values leads to time freedom.”

> “You don’t need to do it all — just do what aligns.”

> “Start with the end in mind.”


📚 Resources Mentioned:

**Working Moms Movement** – Courtney’s coaching and programs

**The Life Management System for Working Moms** – Courtney’s podcast

**Heron House Management** – Virtual house management for busy families: we handle your to-dos so you can focus on what matters most.


📝 Full Transcript:

**Read the full transcript HERE**


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4 months ago
9 minutes 54 seconds

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Ep. 43 - Breaking Down the Mental Load with Paige Connell

In this insightful episode of Destress The Nest, host Hannah Morgan welcomes Paige Connell, a working mother of four and viral content creator known for her candid, relatable take on the mental load of motherhood. Together, they dive deep into what mental load really means—how it manifests in families, why it so often falls on women, and how couples can begin the work of redistributing it more equitably. Paige shares personal stories, practical tools, and honest advice that every overwhelmed parent needs to hear.


Key Takeaways

  • Mental load is the invisible, nonstop cognitive and emotional labor of running a household, often falling disproportionately on women.
  • There's a big difference between doing the task and anticipating, coordinating, and managing the task.
  • Many couples talk past each other about mental load because they don’t have shared language or clear goals.
  • Making the invisible work visible—through lists, tools like the Fair Play method, or regular check-ins—is the first step to change.
  • Equity doesn’t always mean doing 50/50. Sometimes the goal is acknowledgment, time equity, or simply the ability to be present after a long day.
  • These dynamics extend beyond parenting and romantic relationships—they show up in workplaces, friendships, and family systems too.

Quotes

  • “Mental load is a running to-do list in your brain that never gets shorter—it only gets longer.”
  • “I realized I was already doing the work of a house manager—I just wasn’t getting paid for it.”
  • “Often, men think they’re sharing the load equally, but there’s a disconnect between doing and planning.”
  • “If you’re always the one buying the Mother’s Day gift and collecting the Venmos—that’s mental load, too.”
  • “You can’t fix what you can’t see—make the invisible visible.”
  • “Before you redistribute the work, get on the same page about what success looks like.”

Resources Mentioned

  • Fair Play Method by Eve Rodsky – fairplaylife.com
  • Reminders app, shared spreadsheets, and simple tools to make invisible labor visible
  • Paige’s Instagram and TikTok for ongoing mental load conversations and content: @sheisapaigeturner
  • Heron House Management for support reducing the mental load at home

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4 months ago
10 minutes 46 seconds

De-Stress the Nest
Ep 42 - The Weekly Ritual That Can Save Your Relationship with Miranda Bayard-Clark

Summary
In this episode of De-Stress the Nest, host Hannah Morgan sits down with Miranda, a preventative couples coach who helps parents strengthen their relationship before stress and resentment take root. Miranda introduces a practical, weekly ritual for couples—a relationship check-in that helps reduce conflict, clarify expectations, and build emotional intimacy. She breaks down each part of the ritual, shares tips for making it approachable (even fun!), and explains why this simple habit can have a powerful impact on your family dynamic.

Key Takeaways

  • Relationships often decline after kids—not due to lack of love, but from stress and disconnection. Preventative habits help preserve emotional closeness.

  • A weekly ritual that includes appreciation, household management, emotional repair, accountability, and planning for fun can significantly reduce stress and misunderstandings.

  • Framing the check-in as a helpful, low-pressure experiment can make partners more open to trying it.

  • Customizing the check-in to fit your relationship needs is key—whether you’re navigating parenting, big life decisions, or just staying connected.

  • Couples who do this consistently report fewer conflicts, more clarity, and deeper emotional connection.

Quotes from the Episode

  • “The greatest gift you can give your kids is a solid relationship between the two of you.”

  • “This one small weekly habit can drastically decrease your stress levels as a couple.”

  • “When you lay out expectations together, you avoid so many of the little resentments that build up.”

  • “I’m moving from being a marriage saver to a divorce preventer—getting to couples before they hit the breaking point.”

  • “If both people want to stay together, it’s absolutely doable. You just need tools.”

Resources Mentioned

  • If You’re In My Office, It’s Already Too Late by James J. Sexton (book)

  • Heron House Management for support reducing the mental load at home

  • Want to try the check-in? Miranda recommends setting the mood with a glass of wine or takeout and following her simple agenda: appreciations, logistics, emotional repair, accountability, and something fun to look forward to.


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    This episode of De-Stress the Nest is sponsored by Heron House Management.

    About Heron House Management:

    Heron House Management⁠ is a virtual house management service that takes the stress out of your busy life by taking on your mental load and managing your To Do list. We provide fractional virtual house management for busy families at 10, 15 and 20+ hours/month.

    Meal planning, signing up for kids activities, scheduling doctor's appointments, finding a house cleaner, planning your kid's birthday party, getting quotes for that home renovation pro


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    5 months ago
    7 minutes 43 seconds

    De-Stress the Nest
    Ep. 41 - Timing Self-Care to Avoid Burnout with Alyssa Wolff

    In this episode of De-Stress The Nest, host Hannah Morgan sits down with Alyssa Wolff—homeschooling mom of five— who shares her practical and refreshing approach to self-care for working parents. She introduces the idea of prioritizing personal time before the second shift begins, offering realistic ways to build quiet, restorative rhythms into your day—no matter your children’s ages or your work schedule.

    Key Takeaways

    • Take your primary self-care break before transitioning into the evening caregiving “second shift.”

    • Use nap or quiet time intentionally, not for chores or productivity, but to truly recharge.

    • Brand quiet time as a treat for kids to foster independence and cooperation.

    • Even working parents can carve out post-work recharge time by adjusting routines and meal prep.

    • Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for being present and patient with your family.

    Quotes

    • “This is not time to clean the house. This is time to send everyone to their rooms—peace and quiet for everyone.”

    • “If you don’t fill your cup before the second shift starts, you’re running on empty by bedtime.”

    • “Quiet time isn’t punishment—it’s a privilege. You just have to brand it that way.”

    Resources Mentioned

    • Heron House Management — Support for working parents

    • “The Second Shift” book by Arlie Hochschild
    • Breathwork, meditation, and mindset practices (no specific tools named, but mentioned as part of Alyssa’s routine)

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