I have herpes. Somewhere between 1 in 6 and 1 in 3 people do too, so odds are good you either have it or know someone who does. And it's not a big deal!  This week, in Part I of this two-part series, Gina and I talk about our diagnoses and the limitations of healthcare providers to give compassionate and accurate information. Go get tested for STI's, friends! And don't forget to ask specifically for a herpes test. Submit your anonymous dating questions to me at datingbidesign@gmail.com and follow me on Instagram for more dating content.