Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Da
pattymartinlifecoach
23 episodes
2 days ago
For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best.
But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.
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For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best.
But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.
Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Da
8 minutes 57 seconds
3 months ago
8| God's Timing vs. Your Loneliness
The difference between healthy desire for companionship and desperate loneliness.
Understanding your single season as sacred space, not a waiting room.
Recognizing when loneliness is driving decisions vs. genuine readiness.Learn how to wait well: honesty, intentionality, and contentment.
Why God's timing involves preparation, not withholding
Featured Scripture:Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven."Additional Biblical References:
1 Corinthians 7 (Paul on singleness as a gift)Genesis 2:18 ("It is not good for man to be alone")Philippians 4:11 (Paul's contentment)
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Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Da
For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best.
But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.
