For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best. But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.