Most of us, at some point, have tried to prove ourselves—especially to people who underestimate or judge us. It’s a pretty common experience. Back in school, we tried to impress parents, classmates, and teachers, often through grades, achievements, or behavior. We thought if we did well enough, they’d see our worth. But as we grow up, that audience expands. Suddenly, we’re trying to win the approval of coworkers, bosses, romantic partners, family members, and even strangers online.