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Dads Dating After Divorce
Jude Sandvall / Dallas Bluth
21 episodes
3 days ago
If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and...
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If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and...
Show more...
Self-Improvement
Education,
Health & Fitness,
Sexuality
Episodes (20/21)
Dads Dating After Divorce
21 - Let's Get Physical: The Art Of Escalation
If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and...
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3 days ago
1 hour 7 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
20 - Kids or No Kids: Who Should You Date After Divorce?
Dating after divorce can feel like rebuilding a house on old foundations—and that’s exactly why we argue for a full scrape and rebuild. We get real about the question every single dad faces on the apps: her kids, my kids, or no kids? Instead of chasing a replacement for your ex, we lay out a simple, practical framework for designing the next chapter with intention—starting with clear values, vivid invitations, and slow, steady timelines that protect your kids and your peace. We walk through ...
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1 week ago
1 hour 10 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
19 - Checklists are Sexy: Lead Her with Clarity, One Step at a Time
New relationships don’t need a contract; they need direction. We dig into the messy, exciting space after a few dates where interest is real, logistics are heavy, and you’re wondering how to move from casual to committed without killing the spark. As divorced dads, we know the stakes are higher—kids, calendars, and hard-won lessons—so we break down a practical way to lead with clarity while keeping things warm and inviting. We start by flipping the usual script: before negotiating with someo...
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2 weeks ago
1 hour 10 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
18 - From Availability To Attraction
Ever get a “let me check my schedule” that drifts into silence? We unpack why availability feels confusing, how to read it without taking it personally, and what to do instead of pushing for a plan. Our focus: inviting, not burdening. You’ll learn how to craft vivid, low‑pressure invitations, keep your energy consistent after the first spark, and swap the effort mindset for a cleaner metric—response. If the invitation is clear, authentic, and playful, the yes becomes obvious. If it isn’t, you...
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3 weeks ago
1 hour 13 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
17 - From Checklists to Chemistry: Decoding Her Dating Profile
Ever stare at a profile and think, What does any of this actually mean? We go straight at the modern maze of dating after divorce—where “active,” “preferably no kids,” and political banners can make or break a match before you’ve said hello. As two dads who’ve lived the post-divorce reboot, we break down how to read between the lines, when to move on, and how to show up with humor and direction instead of treating dates like job interviews. We tackle the illusion of abundance on apps and why...
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1 month ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
16 - Green Flags & Gut Checks: What Makes a Great Partner After Divorce
Red flags are easy to spot. What’s harder—and far more useful—is training your eye for the green flags that tell you a relationship can actually work. We dive into the signals that matter most for dads dating after divorce: respect for fatherhood, emotional maturity, and consistency that builds trust instead of anxiety. You’ll hear how to test for these qualities without games, just clear beliefs, grounded vulnerability, and specific requests that lead to real change. We unpack why a woman’s...
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1 month ago
1 hour 1 minute

Dads Dating After Divorce
15 - Dating Younger: Fantasy or Fulfillment?
The dating world doesn't come with a rulebook, especially for those navigating it after divorce. In this candid conversation, Jude and Dallas tackle the recent controversy surrounding the Golden Bachelor's age preferences and what it reveals about the complex world of dating in midlife. When 66-year-old Mel Owens stated he preferred to date women between 45-60, the backlash was immediate. But does having age preferences make someone shallow, or is it simply an honest acknowledgment of compat...
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1 month ago
1 hour 4 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
14 - Dog Hair in the Bed: When Fido Becomes the Boyfriend
Ever noticed how some women seem more attached to their furry companions than their human partners? That's exactly what we're diving into today – with both humor and psychological insight. The rise of "dog mom" culture represents more than just cute Instagram posts. For many women, dogs fulfill emotional needs that past relationships failed to satisfy: unconditional love without complex demands, loyalty without question, and comfort without judgment. When a woman chooses her dog's company ov...
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1 month ago
1 hour 2 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
13 - Cargo Shorts Won't Get You Dates
Looking sharp isn't just about vanity—it's a strategic move that impacts every area of your post-divorce life. In this revealing episode, we unpack why men's style matters more than most divorced dads realize, and how your appearance silently communicates volumes about your character before you say a word. When your self-worth takes a hit after divorce, upgrading your style provides a powerful, accessible way to begin rebuilding confidence from the outside in. As co-host Jude candidly shares...
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1 month ago
1 hour 4 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
12 - Blowtorches, Ovens, and Smokers: Understanding Relationship Timing
What happens when Hollywood tries to depict modern dating? In this eye-opening episode, we dissect "The Materialist" movie starring Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal, and Chris Evans to reveal the gap between cinematic romance and the authentic relationship dynamics divorced dads navigate daily. The film portrays a matchmaker torn between a wealthy "unicorn" and her struggling actor ex-boyfriend—a classic Hollywood polarization that misses the nuanced middle ground where real relationships thrive...
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2 months ago
59 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
11 - Make Invitations, Not Demands: Redefining Leadership in Love
The world watched as Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's divorce unfolded across international headlines, with Turner declaring she'd "never return to the US" and Jonas filing to keep his daughters stateside. But beneath this celebrity spectacle lies a powerful lesson for every divorced dad trying to navigate the complex world of dating and co-parenting. This episode dives deep into the art of the invitation—a revolutionary approach to dating that transforms how divorced dads connect with potentia...
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2 months ago
54 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
10 - The Man You Choose to Be Shapes Your Dating Future
Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth delve into the fundamental importance of identifying personal values and beliefs before re-entering the dating world after divorce. They explore how unexamined expectations can derail relationships and provide practical tools for building self-awareness.
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2 months ago
59 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
9 - 5 Things To Look For In A Relationship
Whether you are contemplating dating or assessing the end of your marriage it is critical to know and understand that these 5 elements must be present in your relationship.
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2 years ago
31 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
7 - How To Tell Your Child You’re Dating After Divorce
As you and your children adjust to life after divorce there may be one more adjustment that you want to make…dating again! Listen in as Jude shares some tips on how to tell your child that you’re dating again while reassuring them at the same time.
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2 years ago
30 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
8 - 24 Dating Tips For Life After Divorce
You’re getting back out there and dating again after divorce! Listen in to learn 24 important tips for dating after your divorce including being patient with chemistry, identifying liars, and letting go of anger.
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2 years ago
44 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
6 - 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dating After Divorce
Listen in as Jude and Ralph share the 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dads Dating After Divorce from Shawn T. Smith's book titled The Tactical Guide to Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don
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2 years ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
5 - Are You a Tom Brady?
Ralph and Jude are joined by The Mad Men of Masculinity, Jason B. Kendrick and Kirk M. Samuels, to discuss the Tom Brady/Gisele Bundchen divorce and whether or not you are just like Tom Brady. Tune in to find out! Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Mad Men Radio - http://MadMenRadio.com Music Credit: Akira The Don
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2 years ago
58 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
4 - How To NOT F*%k Up Your Next Relationship
Ralph and Jude discuss Ralph's newest book titled Divorce Panic and share tips on how to prepare yourself for success in your next relationship. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don
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3 years ago
1 hour 8 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
3 - Masculine And Feminine Polarity With Anna Rova
Ralph and Jude talk with Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova about the masculine and feminine polarity and why it is important while dating and in a relationship. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don
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3 years ago
48 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
2 - The Tactical Guide To Women With Dr. Shawn T. Smith
Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show to share wisdom from his book The Tactical Guide To Women: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage. Listen in as Shawn talks about risk management, the bright triad of women, and how to avoid completely f*ing up your life. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don
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3 years ago
57 minutes

Dads Dating After Divorce
If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and...