You're staring at your phone after another mediocre date, wondering why you feel more empty than excited.
Here's what I realized after helping 85+ women find their forever person: We've been doing this whole dating thing backwards.
Stop Leading with Your Body. Start Leading with Your Heart.
Physical chemistry cannot be forced. It takes time. Emotional connection? That's where the real magic happens.
When I found my husband Will (the only man who made it past one hour on a date with me), it wasn't because he was the hottest guy in the room. It was because within that first hour, I felt seen. I could be completely real and authentically, zenfully me.
Stop settling for nice guys who don't make your heart sing.
Good enough is the enemy of C.R.A.Z.Y. love.
You deserve someone who doesn't just add value to your life – you deserve someone who multiplies it. Someone whose emotional security makes you feel safe to be vulnerable.
The One-Hour Rule That Changed Everything.
Give someone one hour of your time. One hour to show you who they really are.
Create space for vulnerability. Ask the deep questions. Pay attention to how they respond to your authenticity.
Do they make you feel like you can be completely real and authentically, zenfully you?
If the answer is no, you're done. Thank you, next.
Trust the Process
Your person is not missing. They're coming.
When you stop entertaining temporary people, when you stop leading with the physical, when you start honoring your worth – everything shifts.
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