I just watched the latest episodes of Love is Blind Season 9, and holy hell—these couples are giving us a masterclass in what NOT to do when you're trying to build forever love.
Let me break down what's really happening here, because these patterns? They're the same ones keeping you stuck in situationships and heartbreak cycles.
Annie & Nick: When Your Worth Gets Negotiated
Annie got drunk. Nick got distant. And suddenly, she's the problem?
No.
Here's what I saw: A woman spiraling in her insecurities because the man she's with isn't emotionally available. Nick showed his true colors early—emotionally checked out, unable to hold space for her feelings. And Annie? She's doing what so many women do: trying to fix herself to be "enough" for someone who was never going to show up anyway.
The lesson: When someone shows you they can't meet you emotionally, believe them the first time.
Ali & Anton: Trust Is Non-Negotiable
Ali doesn't trust Anton. And honestly? She shouldn't.
His drinking is a red flag she's trying to paint green. She's already questioning whether he's being honest, whether he's hiding things, whether this man can actually be her partner.
That gut feeling? It's not paranoia—it's her intuition screaming at her to pay attention.
The Other Couples? Even Messier.I'm breaking down Megan & Jordan's communication disaster, KB's emotional labor trap with Edmund, and Madison's heartbreak with Joe in the full episode. Because each of these couples is showing us exactly what happens when you ignore the red flags and stay too long.
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