@SamiWunder  a leading international dating relationship coach, shares her journey into love coaching and the importance of personal responsibility in dating dynamics. She discusses; the challenges high achievers face in dating and the significance of balancing masculine and feminine energy; the common pitfalls in long-term relationships; strategies for maintaining passion and desire; creating space and the "Red Dress Theory" for igniting desire and attraction in relationships. Connect with Sami: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samiwundercoach/ Youtube:  @SamiWunder  Sami has given a special leave behind for the Couply audience! https://samiwundercoaching.lpages.co/lean-back-podcasts/ Want to use the most advanced Couples app in the world to help your relationship? Download Couply: https://couply.page.link/podcast Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:08 Sami's Journey into Love Coaching 05:09 Overlooking Personal Responsibility in Dating Dynamics 07:05 Challenges for High Achievers in Dating 12:07 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy 17:29 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy 23:49 Tripping Up in Long-Term Relationships 28:02 Maintaining Passion and Desire in Long-Term Relationships 34:05 Avoiding Partner Pleasing 39:49 Defining Yourself Beyond the Relationship 42:00 The Tragic Trap of Relationship Definition 45:17 Creating Space for Desire and Attraction 10:00 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 20:00 Building Self-Confidence 30:00 Effective Communication 40:00 Maintaining Healthy Boundaries 50:00 Conclusion and Gratitude