On Cosmic Confluence, host Sana and certified sexologist Mandy Hart unpack a direct, stigma-free approach to intimacy: start with yourself. We explore how body-based awareness, nervous-system regulation, and honest self-inquiry turn “right vs. wrong” choices into aligned vs. misaligned decisions. Mandy explains mapping activation levels, differentiating intuition from trauma responses, and why small, uncomfortable repair conversations create real connection. We also de-mystify tools like tarot—using the High Priestess archetype—to reflect inner wisdom rather than predict the future. If you’re navigating shame, past relational harm, or confusion about what you want, this conversation offers grounded steps to rebuild trust with your body and make relationships less performative and more authentic. About the Guest: Mandy Hart is a certified sexologist and founder of Hart's Desire, specializing in intimacy and relationship coaching rooted in trauma-informed somatic practices. She helps clients release shame, reconnect with their bodies, and communicate boundaries with clarity—at a sustainable pace. Key Takeaways: Intimacy starts with self-attunement: feel decisions in the body instead of over-calculating outcomes. Replace “right/wrong” with aligned/misaligned—context and values determine fit, not external approval. Activation mapping (noticing fear, panic, calm) trains your nervous system to distinguish intuition from trauma-driven avoidance. Look for green/red flags in yourself, not just in others; your internal signals require attention and care. Progress can be slow and consent-led: frequent check-ins, the option to say no, and aftercare prevent re-traumatization. Repair conversations are uncomfortable yet powerful—small wins compound into trust and spaciousness. Tools like tarot are mirrors, not oracles; use them only if they reinforce inner clarity. The High Priestess = intuition, stillness, and inward focus. Practical start: daily 2–3 minute body check-in (breath, location of sensation, name the feeling, ask “What’s needed now?”). Connect with the Guest: Website: https://harts-desire.com/  (free consultation via the Scheduling tab) Email: mandy@harts-desire.com  Instagram: DM via Mandy’s profile  Want to be a guest on Cosmic Confluence? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty—storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate—this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on: • Mental Health & Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing & Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™📧 Email: join@healthymindbyavik.com | podcast@healthymindbyavik.com🌐 Website: www.healthymindbyavik.com📍 Based in: India & USA 🎙️ Open to collaborations, guest appearances, coaching, and strategic partnerships. Let's connect to create a ripple effect of positivity. CHECK PODCAST SHOWS & BE A GUEST:🎧 Listen our 17 Podcast Shows Here: