As an Asian man, culture is strict to only have a kid when married. I chose to have a kid. I knocked up a girl and faced challenges whether or not to keep it. My struggles like the stress from being a successful masculine man or handling the "no relationship title" or even the Chinese culture reputation issue. My Asian Parents surprisingly didn't have the traditional Asian Parent stereotype and instead played a critical role for my decision. This is my experience deciding why I chose to have a child while not being married.