Insecure Men are worried about losing girlfriend that they protect when their girlfriend is getting hit on. They don't know how to keep your girlfriend interested in you just by not being insecure men in relationships. The Secret? Let Guys Hit On Your Girl. Asian Males often lack confidence and think "Im Insecure" the most so we bring on an Asian OG (possible ex gang member) to give dating advice for men. The common Asian men dating struggle is how to keep your girlfriend and that comes with being a confident Alpha male by not having insecurities as a man. This might even help get your ex-girlfriend back and not make her think she's dating an insecure man.