Growing up as a Whitewashed Asian - does this create masculine women and make them undateable? In predominantly White or Black neighborhoods, Asian men or Asian women struggle but do they lose all their Asian culture or Asian heritage? Dating non-Asians as an Asian woman, like AFWM (Asian Female White Male) or AFBM (Asian Female Black Male), Miki discusses the dating advice for Asian Men dating Whitewashed Asian Women bananas and debates the idea of confrontational women (Masculinity).