This is going to be one of those episodes that is going to make you see your sex life in a whole new light! Even though I’m sharing about this from having done sex work, this will actually resonate for anyone who has ever been a pleaser and performer in the bedroom. In this episode I share about: The reality of how sex work and having sex out of obligation or to please can actually be disempowering and damaging to our bodies. How society glorifies performance and pleasing in the bedroom and how we are conditioned for it How pleasing can actually be a trauma response called fawning. The long term impacts of being a sexual fawner. I go deep into sharing my own journey of how I was re-traumatising my body through always try to please my partner and how I became numb and shut down sexually and I also share the journey I’ve been on of recovery to heal my body and reclaim my sex life! Download the Deep Intimacy Playbook and start practicing boundaries and consent at https://www.deepsexyplay.com. For my current intimacy programs and the teacher training go to: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial or facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial or tiktok at https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/ Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!