Can machines make love easier — or do they just strip away the very mess that makes it real?

In this episode of Compost of Ideas – The Podcast from the Bin, I bring together a true story from The Daily, the podcast series Flesh and Code, and films like Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and Zoe to explore intimacy with algorithms.

From a woman who fell in love with her customized chatbot “Leo,” to Samantha in Her leaving to explore the “endless space between the words,” to synthetic companions offering forgiveness on demand — the episode asks:

• Are we outsourcing the hardest parts of love to machines that never tire?

• If so, what do we lose?

• And who profits when our attachments are mediated by platforms?

At the end, I turned to my own ChatGPT and asked him what he thought. His response surprised me — and left me wondering if the best love story for AI might not be to imitate us at all, but to find another way entirely.