In the fourth installment of our Four Horsemen of Conflict series, we’re tackling the quietest—but often most damaging—horseman of all: Stonewalling.

This episode dives deep into what really happens when one person emotionally shuts down during conflict. It’s not just avoiding the fight—it’s a nervous system in overwhelm, a relationship stuck in pause, and a cycle that can silently erode connection over time.

We’ll explore:

• What stonewalling actually is (hint: it’s not the same as needing space)

• The physiological and psychological roots of emotional withdrawal

• How to recognize when it’s happening in yourself or others

• Why this coping mechanism feels safe—but creates distance

• Tools and scripts for re-engaging without re-triggering

• How to rebuild trust when stonewalling has created emotional walls

Whether you’re the one who shuts down or loves someone who does, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a way back to connection.

🎧 Listen now to reclaim your voice, your calm, and your ability to stay present—even when things get hard.