
Too many high-achieving men feel numb despite the wins. The culprit? A shadow mission—a life built on fear, status, and other people’s approval. I’m Fabian Bolin, co-founder and head trainer at SEOL. In this episode of Command Your Life, I share my journey from investment banking to entrepreneurship and the exact framework that’s helped 150+ men shift from a shadow mission to a true mission.
You’ll learn:
• How to spot the signs you’re living a shadow mission
• The difference between success and fulfillment (and why most men confuse them)
• The Four Gates of Remembering—your roadmap to reconnect with purpose
• Practical steps to reclaim energy, passion, and direction
By the end, you’ll have actionable tools to stop performing for applause, align with your real purpose, and get your spark back. Subscribe to Command Your Life for weekly episodes on leadership, mission, and self-mastery.