Most of the times, when we are trying to get our ex back we are walking on eggshells, acting so delicately around our ex. Why? Because we don't want to mess things up even more BUT is it effective? Are we getting a chance on our exes wanting them back? In this video, Clay talks about the POLITE TRAP and what to do if you want to get back with your ex. When you are doing these, you are just getting on surface-level conversations. You should avoid doing these because they do not help you hone your emotional connection with them. If you really want to get your ex back or if you still love them, have deeper conversations to understand them more.