Clay Andrews answers the question, "My ex is confused! What should I do?" My ex is confused...! It can be a complicated situation when your ex isn't sure what they want, or when there is a cycle that seems to keep repeating itself over and over again in your relationshpi. However, you can't allow yourself to stay in a repeating cycle forever. You have to love yourself enough to break the pattern and do something different. That's what this video is about. It's about what we call the One Way Spikes Of Doom strategy to help guide your ex to make a decision and giving them the space to feel the consequences of their decision. It's tough, but if you want to break the cycle so you can find out sooner rather than later if your ex and you really have a future together, then you have to love yourself enough to do this. Step out of your comfort zone and be willing to bet on yourself in a big way.