God doesnt have you wait for no reason, majority of the time its for a valid reason."Women of Jerusalem, make me a promise. Don’t stir up love. Don’t wake it up until it’s ready.” (Song of Solomon 8:4 NIRV). " Do not go around trying to be God, keep your hand off of his stuff. Remember, your spouse is God's son or daughter before they are your Husband or Wife. God can turn things around when you have faith in Him and trust His plan for your life. The wait can make you more observant on things you don't see in the spiritual.