Join us this week for a replay of one of our most popular episodes!
When your partner turns your therapy progress into ammunition against you and conversations become twisted battles where you end up apologizing for things you never did wrong, you might be experiencing a calculated pattern of emotional abuse.
This eye-opening episode breaks down the DARVO technique (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) and reveals how gaslighting operates within relationships affected by addiction. Amie and Alanna provide concrete tools to help you distinguish between your reality and the false narrative being imposed on you, while offering hope for reclaiming your power and truth.
What You'll Learn:
How to recognize DARVO patterns and gaslighting tactics
The difference between addiction-based vs. deep-rooted abusive behaviors
Practical tools for disengaging and reclaiming your reality
Referenced in this episode:
Am I in an Abusive Relationship? - Self-paced course
The Elements of Abuse podcast series with Kim Day and Amie - Part 1: The Power of Awareness, Part 2: The Power of Accepting Reality, Part 3: The Power to Act
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