Show Description: Amy and Angelyn explore a unique approach to discovering core values through planning an imaginary dream dinner party. Based on an exercise from Dr. Pooja Lakshmin's book "Real Self Care," they walk through creating their ideal gatherings and uncover how each choice—from location to guest list to menu—reveals what truly matters to them.'
Key Topics Covered
- Using the dream dinner party exercise to uncover core values
- How venue choices reflect personal preferences and values
- The significance of guest list selection in revealing connection styles
- Food and activity preferences as windows into deeper values
- The connection between party planning style and core values
- Wedding planning stories as examples of value alignment
Dream Party Elements Revealed
- Amy: Bed and breakfast in Maine, intimate gathering, finger foods, card games, fireplace conversations
- Angelyn: Outdoor setting with twinkle lights, farm table, sommelier-selected wines, murder mystery activity
Notable Quotes
"Finding your core values isn't just about what you think you should care about, it's about what actually lights you up in real life." - Angelyn (referencing Dr. Pooja Lakshmin)
"I think it really just brings or sheds light on the fact that when you plan something, it really brings that attention to what makes you feel happy, what lights you up." - Amy
Key Takeaways:
- Your dream party preferences reveal deeper truths about your core values
- How you approach planning (or avoiding planning) reflects important aspects of your personality
- Small details like food choices and entertainment preferences contain valuable insights
- The people you choose to include show what types of connections matter most to you
- Even when you think you're making choices for practical reasons, values are often driving those decisions
- Understanding your values through fun exercises can be more revealing than direct questioning
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Angelyn Franks - @dr.angelynfranks on instagram || e-mail: hello@slpselfcaresociety.com
Amy Zembriski - @amyz.theslp on instagram || e-mail: info@speechtherapyconnectionsllc.com
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