Lächeln ist ein wirkungsvolles Kommunikationsinstrument. Es schafft Vertrauen und kann dafür sorgen, dass die Chemie zwischen Menschen stimmt. Was das mit Führung und dem Kommunikations-Eisberg zu tun hat, erklären Christian und Michael in dieser Episode.

Am 31.08.2025 wäre mein guter Freund und Podcast-Co-Host Christian Kohlhof 55 Jahre alt geworden. Leider hat er diesen Geburtstag nicht mehr erlebt und ist viel zu früh und plötzlich im Juli 2025 verstorben. In der Verarbeitung von Trauer, Verwirrung und einem Gefühl des Alleinseins lade ich euch ein, gemeinsam mit mir eine besondere Episode als Geburtstagsgeschenk für Christian zu gestalten: mit Geschichten über ihn, gerne auch mit Ausdruck von Dankbarkeit und Vergebung, was vielleicht schwierig war. Christian war begeisterter Podcast und hat mich damals überredet, diesen Podcast mit ihm anzufangen. Ich habe viel daraus mitgenommen, bin sehr dankbar und hoffe, mit diesem Beitrag in seinem Sinne etwas zurückgeben zu können. Herzlichen Dank für eure Beiträge – und dafür, dass wir Christian und sein Wirken in Erinnerung halten. Michael

What do you really communicate when you enter a room? In this episode, we reveal the invisible layer of leadership—body language. Learn how gestures, posture, and tone can make or break your message. Discover the power of physical congruence and how to lead more consciously, starting with your presence.

What’s the secret sauce behind true leadership influence? In this energizing episode, we dissect the chapter Creating Rapport and uncover the deep mechanics of connection, trust, and real dialogue. Learn why real leaders focus on how they show up, not just what they say. Tune in to learn how to build relationships that matter.

Most of what we communicate isn’t said out loud. In this episode, we explore the “Iceberg of Communication” and how understanding this powerful model can transform the way you lead. Dive into the unspoken world of assumptions, emotions, and unconscious signals that influence every conversation. Learn how to tune into what’s beneath the surface—and become a more empathetic, effective leader.

Repetition isn’t a weakness—it’s leadership in action. This episode introduces the “Chief Repeating Officer,” a playful yet powerful mindset shift for leaders. Discover why the most effective leaders don’t just say something once—they repeat, reinforce, and realign, building clarity and consistency within their teams.

How do the words you choose affect your leadership success? In this episode, we explore the concept of Positive Language—an essential leadership skill. You'll learn how shifting your vocabulary from problem-focused to solution-oriented changes not only how others perceive you but how you think and act. Positive language isn't about ignoring reality—it's about shaping it constructively.

What makes influence sustainable and sincere? In this episode, Michael and Christian delve into what it really means to influence others effectively. They challenge the myth that influence is about control, instead highlighting how leaders shape outcomes through alignment, trust, and example. If you’ve ever wondered how to lead with intention and integrity, this conversation is your blueprint.

What if small details were the difference between average results and exceptional ones? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the role of detail orientation in leadership, quality, and team performance. They reflect on how our natural preferences influence how we handle details—and how we can train our focus when it matters. You’ll learn why attention to detail is a mindset, not a personality trait, and how to cultivate it without getting overwhelmed. If you want to improve precision, reliability, and execution, this episode is for you.

What if being fully present—right here, right now—was the missing piece to your clarity and peace of mind? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the power of presence in leadership and everyday life. Through stories and reflections, they show how practicing presence leads to better decisions, calmer responses, and more meaningful interactions. You’ll learn how to notice when your mind is elsewhere and gently return to the current moment. If you’re searching for more focus, purpose, and calm in a fast-paced world, this episode is for you.

What if truly listening to others was the key to better collaboration, stronger relationships, and more effective leadership? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the art of conscious listening—and why it’s more than just hearing words. They discuss how listening requires presence, patience, and a willingness to hold space without immediately offering advice. You’ll hear how empathy, self-awareness, and the ability to stay curious can transform conversations and build trust. If you’re looking to become a better communicator and more mindful leader, this episode offers valuable insight.

What if your biggest productivity challenge isn’t time—but how you choose to use it? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore how clarity and structure can transform the way we work and lead. They share practical techniques for setting priorities, staying focused, and creating space for what truly matters. Drawing on the "rocks, pebbles, sand" metaphor, they offer a simple yet powerful approach to organizing tasks and managing energy. You’ll also learn why saying “yes” to everything often means saying “no” to what’s most important. If you’re looking for a more intentional way to work and lead, this episode is for you.

What if the people who drain your energy aren’t the problem—but your reaction to them is? In this episode, Michael and Christian take a closer look at the concept of “energy vampires” and what really makes certain interactions feel exhausting. They explore how our attention, expectations, and values shape our experience of others—and how much of what we perceive as draining comes from within. You’ll learn how to manage your focus more intentionally, recognize when misalignment is the real issue, and lead with more empathy and clarity. If you want to protect your energy and strengthen your leadership presence, this episode offers powerful insight.

What if the key to better leadership, stronger relationships, and greater personal success was simply paying more attention? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the power of awareness and mindfulness in both personal and professional life. They discuss how cultivating awareness helps you understand yourself and others better, while mindfulness allows you to stay present and focused in a world full of distractions. You’ll also learn simple, effective techniques to train your mind, reduce stress, and improve decision-making. If you’re looking for practical ways to enhance clarity and control in your daily life, this episode is for you.

What do you believe about yourself, your abilities, and the world around you? In this episode, Michael and Christian dive deep into the psychology of beliefs and how they influence every aspect of our lives. They discuss the hidden power of subconscious beliefs, how they affect our confidence and decisions, and how we can consciously change them to achieve greater success. Whether you want to overcome self-doubt, improve your leadership, or simply challenge old ways of thinking, this episode will show you how to break free from limiting beliefs and adopt a mindset that fuels growth.

Two people can experience the exact same event but interpret it completely differently—why? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the power of perception and how our beliefs, experiences, and emotions shape the way we see the world. They discuss the impact of cognitive biases, the role of perspective in leadership, and how shifting your perception can open up new possibilities. If you want to improve your decision-making, communication, and ability to see the bigger picture, this episode will give you practical tools to broaden your view of the world.

Having a goal is important—but without a strategy, even the best intentions can lead nowhere. In this episode, Michael and Christian break down the importance of strategy in leadership, business, and personal growth. They explore how to create and implement strategies that align with your vision, ensuring that your plans are actionable and results-driven. You’ll learn why simplicity is often the key to effective strategy, how to avoid common mistakes in planning, and why flexibility is just as important as structure. Whether you’re leading a team, growing a business, or working on personal development, this episode will help you design strategies that turn your ambitions into reality.

What truly matters to you? Your values shape your mindset, decisions, and leadership style. But how often do we stop to define them? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the deep impact of values—on both personal and professional levels. They discuss how values influence the way we communicate, make decisions, and build relationships. You’ll learn how to identify your core values, align them with your goals, and use them to create a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. The hosts also share practical strategies for ensuring that your stated values aren’t just words, but principles that guide your daily actions. By gaining clarity on your values, you can make better decisions, strengthen your leadership, and create a life that truly aligns with who you are.

What separates those who achieve great things from those who don’t? A clear and compelling vision. In this episode, Michael and Christian break down the elements of a strong vision and how it influences your personal and professional life. They share insights on how visualization, mindset, and strategic action work together to bring your dreams to life. Learn how to set a vision, stay motivated, and overcome distractions that might stand in your way.

What gives your life meaning? More than just setting and achieving goals, understanding your purpose provides direction, motivation, and a sense of fulfillment. In this episode, Michael and Christian explore how defining your why can transform the way you lead, work, and live. They discuss the difference between purpose and ambition, how to uncover what truly drives you, and why aligning your actions with your purpose leads to greater impact and satisfaction. If you’ve ever wondered how to bring more meaning into your daily life, this episode will give you the tools to find and live your purpose with clarity and confidence.