Following the sudden death of social media self-help coach Kevin Samuels - the internet has been alive with chatter. To some (mainly men) he was a hero who spoke the truths to women that wouldn't otherwise be said and which they didn't want to her but to others (mainly women) he was a patronising, misogynistic bully. I am sure the truth is in the middle somewhere. Some have argued that he was a man for the people - his people who believed in building up the black family and empowering it to be great. Others would say he thrived on putting down black women publicly and making them feel lesser than their white counter parts. The controversial black coach has now passed and while some moan his death, others have shown jubilation - but what was his legacy and what of his message? If you looked yourself in the mirror - how do you rate yourself?