Toby Obumseli a 27 year old black man from Texas was recently pronounced dead after being fatally stabbed by his girlfriend instagram influencer Courtney Taylor Clenney while at an apartment block in Miami. The death of Toby has shocked many women in the black community but it could be said for all the wrong reasons. See Courtney, who is a white woman, has not been charged with this murder and in fact was spotted out drinking at a bar a few days after the incident when most people would be in jail. But soon after this story came to light and the black community was starting to galvanise in order to seek justice for Toby, it was revealed via the exposure of previous social media posts and videos that he in fact had a distaste for black people...especially black women but was very complimentary of white women which he sought in the shape of Courtney Taylor. Interestingly his bother has since released a statement requesting assistance from the same black community for justice but with these tweets about his own black people making for some interesting reading to most, the movement has since tapped out and the black women have overwhelmingly indicated that this is not their fight and that he has in fact made his bed. But should an individuals self hate over shadow the need for a united front to seek justice especially when it comes to the death of someone from the black community? we discuss in Episode 51.