Episode 5 Part 1: Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Telling Someone About a Partner Cheating, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of Cheating   Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors of Kyle Cheating? Including an upsetting rumor about her husband getting another woman pregnant? What makes it difficult for people to accept that what they are hearing about their spouse from others might be true? The difficulty of reconciling our personal experiences with a person with information that is contrary to that impression of them. Telling someone about their spouse cheating, or rumors of their spouse cheating. Why might it result in a "Shoot the Messenger" situation? The need to be careful in telling someone about their spouse's infidelity. How Cheaters respond to their partner confronting them about rumors regarding their cheating. Cheaters may Flip the Script to Impeach the Credibility of the person sharing the rumors with their partner. Cheaters will often try to develop an "us versus the world" mentality to prevent their partner from believing others outside the marriage about rumors.  Chaters may watch how you respond to different methods of responding, to determine the most effective way to convince their partner that the rumors are not true.   Financial Evidence of Cheating. There is frequently financial evidence of cheating. Charges, Lines of Credit, Secret Credit Cards, Apartments or Rental Properties.