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Chaos and Chemistry Podcast
Chaos and Chemistry Podcast
21 episodes
3 days ago
The modern relationship advice podcast.
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The modern relationship advice podcast.
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Relationships
Society & Culture
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Victim, Rescuer, or Persecutor—Which One Are You in Relationships?
Chaos and Chemistry Podcast
38 minutes 25 seconds
7 months ago
Victim, Rescuer, or Persecutor—Which One Are You in Relationships?

Stuck in the same relationship cycles? Always the fixer, the one blamed, or the one feeling powerless?
In this episode of Chaos and Chemistry, Legan and trauma and Max unpack the Drama Triangle — a powerful framework that reveals the unconscious roles we fall into: Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor.

You'll discover:

  • Which role you unconsciously slip into (and why it’s so hard to stop)

  • The hidden mindset of each role: “Why is this happening to me?”, “Let me fix it for you”, and “This is your fault”

  • How these roles show up in relationships, at work, and even in your self-talk

Legan and Max break down how these dynamics rob you of your power, keep you disconnected from your worth, and create the illusion that your relationships are the problem—when it’s really the pattern.

More than just theory, this episode dives into the core needs driving each role:

  • The Victim seeks safety

  • The Rescuer craves purpose and to feel needed

  • The Persecutor longs for control

If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck on a "ferris wheel of hell", constantly switching roles but getting nowhere—this conversation is your first step to freedom. You’ll walk away with deep insight into your relational patterns and a clear path toward authentic, healthy connection.

✨ Next week: Join us for practical tools to break the cycle and step off the triangle for good.

Visit www.chaosandchemistry.com to learn more or book a discovery call to start your journey toward lasting, healthy relationships.

Chaos and Chemistry Podcast
The modern relationship advice podcast.