In this episode, Gregory tackles the challenging intersection of SOCIAL ANXIETY and CPTSD, exploring why trauma survivors often experience heightened fear in social situations. He explains how our NERVOUS SYSTEMS become wired to perceive social interactions as threats rather than opportunities for connection, creating a vicious cycle where HYPERVIGILANCE and SHAME reinforce each other. Through listener stories and research-backed insights, Gregory offers compassionate understanding of why these responses make perfect sense given what trauma survivors have experienced.
Key Takeaways • Social anxiety with CPTSD is a physiological response, not just irrational thinking or personal weakness • Traditional exposure therapy often fails because trauma survivors start from a dysregulated baseline • Shame intensifies social anxiety by creating a feedback loop of self-consciousness and hypervigilance • Healing requires "regulate-then-engage" rather than forcing yourself into overwhelming situations • Small victories in social settings represent significant shifts in your nervous system's perception of safety
 
What You'll Discover • How trauma creates a "rejection radar" that misinterprets normal social cues as threats • The science behind why your body responds to social situations as if they're life-threatening • Practical grounding techniques you can discreetly use when anxiety spikes in social settings • Why selective vulnerability creates more authentic connections than either hiding or oversharing • How to create personalized "social exposure ladders" that gradually expand your comfort zone
 
Resources Mentioned • "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk • Research by Stephen Porges on Polyvagal Theory and social engagement • Studies by Karatzias et al. (2019) on the connection between CPTSD and social anxiety • Kristin Neff's research on self-compassion practices for trauma survivors • Trauma-sensitive mindfulness approaches by David Treleaven
 
Next Episode Preview We'll explore how to navigate intimate relationships when you have CPTSD, including how trauma affects attachment styles and practical tools for building secure connection without sacrificing your boundaries or authentic self.
 
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