By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.
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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.
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This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing.
In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care for yourself—and your partners—when the high fades. From physical fatigue to emotional vulnerability, Angela and Bradford share their personal experiences, aftercare strategies, and tips to help you come down gently and reconnect with yourself after the play is over.
Tune in for an honest, compassionate conversation about the less glamorous—but deeply important—side of kink and party culture. Because pleasure is powerful, but so is the recovery that follows.
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