In this episode, we dive into one of the most common traps in intercultural relationships: misunderstandings caused by cultural differences in communication and expectations.
We explore:
· Why “I’m fine” can mean the exact opposite in different cultures.
· How subtle differences in expressing emotions, family values, and expectations can trigger conflict.
· A light-hearted yet insightful story from an Asian–Western couple that illustrates these cultural gaps.
· Simple, actionable tips to express needs and emotions effectively without blame — including the “VW Principle" - "Wunsch statt Vorwurf”: turning complaints into explaining your real thoughts or expactation.
💡 Practice for this episode: Next timeyou feel like saying “I’m fine,” pause and ask yourself:
· What do I really want to be seen and heard?
· How would I like my partner to respond?
Join me as we turn misunderstandings into laughter, conflict into connection, and cultural differences into bridges.
Tags: #CrossCulturalRelationships #InterculturalCouples #RelationshipAdvice#ConflictResolution #CommunicationTips #CouplesCounseling #AsianWesternCouples#EmotionalAwareness #PodcastForCouples #BridgingHearts
Welcome to Bridging Hearts AcrossCultures — a podcast exploring the tension and transformation in cross-cultural and interpersonal relationships.
Hosted by Hui, a relationship consultant and expert in business negotiation and conflict management. Chinese-born, based in Europe.
Real stories + psychological insight + communication tools to help you navigatecultural tension, workplace dynamics, and daily conflict.
Mandarin version available: search for “跨界心桥”or click the link:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/0nhIO6bvFASL5K9aXAHsKS?si=zukjjpBnQ8yQjLZ0B14DlA
This episode in Chinese: https://open.spotify.com/episode/57GUG5jhmPhxmeejg8Q5UM?si=cpsykI3rQei-5DqLDQpQxw
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