Title: How to Be a Difficult Dad
Speaker: Pastor Casey Kendall
Series: Heart
Date: Father’s Day
Scripture: 1 Samuel 18:17–29
Summary:
In this heartfelt and convicting Father’s Day message, Pastor Casey Kendall draws from 1 Samuel 18 and the life of King Saul to explore the dangers of becoming a “difficult dad.” He shares from personal experience, urging fathers to reject insecurity, secrecy, and fear, and instead lead their families with intention, humility, and surrender to God.
Key Themes:
The Power of Presence: Don’t underestimate the impact of simply showing up.
Spiritual Leadership: Fathers are called to lead with purpose, not perfection.
Insecurity Breeds Instability: King Saul’s insecurity led to jealousy, deception, and dysfunction.
Secrecy and Anxiety: Living a double life undermines trust and integrity.
From Baggage to Boldness: God invites us to step out of hiding and into healing.
Jesus, the Better King: David points us to Jesus—the only one who can truly redeem and empower us to be godly men.
Notable Quotes:
“Your example today becomes someone else’s experience tomorrow.”
“We can’t withdraw what we never invested.”
“The most secure men are the most surrendered men.”
“You’re winning the world, but you’re losing me.” — Casey’s son
Challenge to Dads:
Own your attitude and emotions.
Lead with intentionality and integrity.
Invest time, presence, and love into your family.
Don’t react from your past—respond through your purpose.
Let the Spirit of God transform your heart before you try to lead others.
Come out of hiding. Confess. Repent. Live a Spirit-filled life. Don’t just hear the Word—live it out at home first. Your family doesn’t need a perfect dad, just a present and surrendered one.
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