In this deeply empowering solo episode, Holly Joy McCabe dismantles one of the most toxic personal development ideals: balance.
We’ve been told to “strive for balance” — in our work, our relationships, our self-care — but what if that goal is keeping us in a cycle of burnout, disappointment, and self-blame?
Holly reframes this outdated narrative by offering a revolutionary alternative: harmony.
From juggling glass vs. rubber balls, to hormone cycles, business seasons, nervous system capacity, and daily rhythms — this episode gives women the tools to finally stop chasing a fantasy and start creating a life that works with them, not against them.
Why balance is a myth that sets women up to fail
The power of harmony over perfection
How your hormonal cycle impacts productivity
What “rubber vs. glass balls” really means in your daily life
Why hustle culture isn’t bad — when it’s used correctly
The #1 priority every woman should structure her day around
How to build capacity in your nervous system and life
Tools to regularly recalibrate and check in with yourself
How to organize your priorities to reduce anxiety & increase clarity
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Note worthy quotes:
“Balance is a moving target in a constantly shifting world. Harmony, on the other hand, meets you where you are.” – Holly Joy
“When you finally stop expecting every day to be easy, you give yourself permission to build a life that’s real.” – Holly Joy
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