"The Passion Trap" by Dean C. Delis, Ph.D., with Cassandra Phillips, explores relationship imbalances where one partner is more emotionally invested than the other. This book summary podcast examines the resulting "passion trap," characterised by a power imbalance where the more invested partner is in a one-down position, and the less invested partner is one-up. Delis and Phillips analyse various coping mechanisms used by both partners, such as blaming, jealousy, and infidelity, and introduce communication strategies to address the imbalance. The text incorporates numerous case studies to illustrate these concepts and offers solutions for either strengthening the relationship or making the difficult decision to separate. Finally, it also considers the impact of situational factors and personality styles on relationship dynamics.
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