In this episode we discuss the science behind sex drive and why it doesn’t exist (at least what we think to be true).
The dual control method is unpacked, a new narrative to the outdated high/low “sex drive” belief.
A narrative that gives you more power over your own body and desires.
We help you to understand that you are a unique system, with unique & different & ever-changing sexual turn-ons & turn-offs.
So therefore We all need to be actively creating the most appealing contexts that personally drive us toward intimacy and pleasure, as well as communicating with our partners on how to help.
As always, we remind you that you are normal as well as multidimensional!
Book Recommendations:
Come as you are - Emily nagoski
Dr T - a guide to sexual health and pleasure
The vagina bible - Jen Gunter