“We need to redefine what success and ambition actually look like… how do we make it every day in the sense of what brings me fulfillment, satisfaction, and joy within my title and outside of that title” - Marissa Nelson

On this episode of BLKGirl Ambition, your host Niya Baxter sits down with award-winning relationship & sex therapist Marissa Nelson to flip the script on what success—and pleasure—really look like. We get unapologetically honest about the power dynamics that show up when ambition meets intimacy, why control can derail our closest connections, and how couples can tackle everything from mismatched desire to sexual dysfunction. Along the way, Marissa reminds us that dreaming, play, and self-reflection aren’t luxuries—they’re essential fuel for personal fulfillment. If you’re ready to reclaim pleasure, redefine your ambition, and build relationships that honor your boldest self, this conversation is your blueprint.

Keywords: ambition, vulnerability, success, relationships, intimacy, black women, entrepreneurship, self-worth, personal growth, therapy, relationships, intimacy, vulnerability, sexual fulfillment, couples therapy, dating, emotional support, pleasure, joy, black women

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Ambition and Vulnerability

02:11 The Challenge of Starting Something New

08:31 Redefining Success and Ambition

12:55 Navigating Relationships and Power Dynamics

18:00 Dreaming and Play in Ambition

26:20 The Impact of Control on Relationships

27:24 Navigating Vulnerability and Intimacy

28:45 Understanding Sexual Fulfillment in Long-Term Relationships

30:10 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Low Desire

31:20 The Reality of Low Sexual Activity in Relationships

32:41 Defining Connection Beyond Intimacy

34:05 The Importance of Commitment in Relationships

36:29 Red Flags in Dating

38:49 The Role of Support in Healthy Relationships

41:34 Reclaiming Pleasure and Joy

49:41 Empowering Women to Reclaim Their Pleasure

Reach out to Marissa Nelson to connect:

www.IntimacyMoons.com

IG: @xomarissanelson

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