In this season finale of Black Motherhood Unplugged, I pull back the curtain on a year of juggling life, work, and kids while searching for the person beneath the roles. I’m honest about the mistakes I’ve made, the lessons I’ve learned, and the boundaries I’ve learned to set. This isn’t just a recap; it’s a proclamation of self-priority — recognizing who shows up for me, who doesn’t, and where my attention needs to stay: on me. If you’re navigating the curveballs of motherhood and career, this episode is a candid map of where I’m today, where I’m headed, and how I’m choosing myself in the process.
In this episode of Black Motherhood Unplugged: Juggling Life, Working, Kids, I share the personal steps I took to transform my year. I talk candidly about leaning into therapy, changing a small habit, and doing the opposite to reset my momentum. You’ll hear how I held myself accountable and started preparing to take on work and life with renewed focus.
Key takeaways:
The role of therapy in personal growth
Tiny habit changes that yield big results
Using opposite actions to shift mindset
Practical strategies for accountability and momentum
And Setting Healthy Boundaries
If you’re navigating motherhood, work, and self-improvement, this episode offers relatable steps you can adapt to your own life.
#change #lifegoal #motherhood #healing #boundaries #singlemom #findingme
On this episode of Black Mother Unplugged, I pull back the curtain on how I’m juggling motherhood, work, and my own pursuit of happiness. I’m sharing the real, actionable steps I’m taking to nurture joy, peace, and self-discovery—building healthy boundaries, knowing myself better, and protecting my mind, body, and spirit to prevent burnout and ditch the dark spaces. From cultivating confidence and embracing “bad bitch energy” to practical routines that sustain me, this is about thriving, not just surviving.
I’m inviting fellow mothers to join me: let go of what no longer serves you, meet God halfway through prayer, and keep going with intention. Let’s empower each other to stay resilient, thrive, and enjoy the ride together. #badbitch #cardib #boundaries #motherhood #happiness
In this episode, I share what it’s really like to date a gaslighting narcissist—what I know now, the red flags to watch for, and how to protect your sense of self. We’ll unpack common manipulation tactics, how to recognize patterns early, and practical steps to affirm your worth, set clear boundaries, and avoid settling. If you’re dating, recovering, or supporting someone who’s experienced this, this episode offers guidance, validation, and hope for healthier relationships. #gaslit #ex #narcissist #healing #heartbreak
This episode is a candid, impromptu freestyle reflection on Black motherhood in the here and now. I share what happened over the last month—taking a 30-day pause, therapy, renewing my commitment to the gym, and the boundary-setting that followed. I talk about stepping back to save myself and, in turn, better show up for my kids, without burning out or answering every call the moment it rings. It’s a real conversation about stress, self-care, and the power of flexible boundaries—finding balance without rigidity. If you’ve ever felt pulled in a million directions, this episode is for you.
Four years after my mother’s death, I’m sharing a candid look at how I’ve come to understand Patricia Renteria as a whole person—long before she was “Mom.” I honor her, I sympathize with her, and I see her clearly today. This shift also reframes my view of my father and our family dynamics, a process that therapy helped me navigate. This is a honest, intimate reckoning and an invitation to grieve, learn, and heal.
Hey listeners, I’ve been off the mic for a bit, and I’m really glad to be back with a quick check-in. This episode is all about catching you up on how everything’s going, where I’ve been, and what I’m excited about moving forward. No big topics just a warm, honest chat to reconnect. Thanks for sticking around.
In this episode, I share my honest and open perspective on how I discipline and raise my boys in a household full of energy and life. I discuss the importance of setting boundaries, encouraging my boys to have a voice, and teaching them responsibility through chores. While I may not be a conventional mom, cursing and talking openly about boys and hygiene, I believe in fostering honesty, authenticity, and respect.
I also touch on moments of fatigue and how I navigate those times, often stopping to apologize when I lash out, making it clear that my reactions are not directed at my children but are moments of human imperfection. Ultimately, my goal is to raise confident, respectful boys who understand boundaries, value open communication, and see their mom as real, relatable, and loving.
In this episode, I open up about my personal spiritual journey
how it all began and how it has evolved over the years. From being raised Catholic to forging my own unique relationship with God beyond religion. I share the pivotal moments, experiences, and practices that have shaped my path.
I talk about exploring different spiritual practices, including the Santeria, Yoruba tradition, and how these have contributed to my healing, growth, and self-love. This journey has taught me to trust myself, embrace inner healing, and cultivate a deeper connection with my higher self and ancestors.
Join me as I reflect on the importance of self-awareness, trusting your intuition, and evaluating the relationships that nurture your spirit. Whether you're just starting your own journey or looking for inspiration, this episode is all about healing, inner peace, and embracing your true self.
In this candid episode, I share my recent wake-up call. A hospital stay caused by overdoing it at the gym, neglecting hydration, and ignoring the signs my body was giving me. As a busy mom of three, full-time career, and student, I was juggling everything until I dropped the ball. Join me as I reflect on how I nearly paid the ultimate price and the crucial lessons I’ve learned about listening to my body, prioritizing self-care, and recognizing my limits. If you're balancing it all, this episode is a reminder to slow down and put yourself first.
In this episode, I share my journey through the vibrant summer season, highlighting the importance of self-love, personal growth, and creating new memories. I discuss my recent experiences, from joining social groups and kayaking in Houston Bayou to balancing family time with moments dedicated solely to myself.
Tune in as I talk about celebrating my birthday (single) treating myself with love and kindness, as I would in a relationship and embracing the journey of loving myself fully. I also share insights on my upcoming trip to New York, my kids’ accomplishments this school year, and how I’m managing to juggle all these aspects while prioritizing my well-being.
Join me as I explore how to thrive during busy seasons, nurture self-care, and create meaningful memories along the way.
In this episode of Black Motherhood Unplugged, I open up about my personal journey managing ADHD as a Black single mother. From struggles and self-doubt to embracing help and medication, I share my story of growth, healing, and resilience. If you're navigating motherhood and ADHD, or know someone who is, this episode offers support, encouragement, and hope. #blackmom #singlemom #ADHD
In this episode, I share my journey of healing through a holistic approach, nurturing my mind, body and spirit from deepening my relationship with God to embracing therapy, physical movement and healthier, eating habits I discuss how I balance, spirituality, and self-care on my path to wholeness join me as I explore the importance of prioritizing yourself and walking in faith while healing from within.
In this episode of "Juggling: The Assignment, is Me. I take center stage to share my personal journey toward better mental health and self-care as a single mother. I delve into the transformative power of therapy and the importance of forgiveness, both for myself and others. I discuss the proactive steps I'm taking to prioritize my well-being, ensuring that my children witness and learn healthy habits for self-care. Additionally, I offer practical tips for fellow single mothers on how to carve out time for themselves and embrace the necessity of self-prioritization. Join me as I explore the path to a healthier mindset and empower others to take the next steps on their journeys.
In this episode, I dive into my current co-parenting journey with my baby daddy’s, exploring the challenges and triumphs along the way. I discuss the steps I'm taking to heal past wounds, focusing on surrendering my worries to God and embracing a positive mindset. Join me as I visualize what a healthy co-parenting relationship looks like and share practical tips on manifesting that vision in your own life. Together, we'll explore the dynamics of co-parenting and discover how to cultivate a harmonious partnership for the sake of our children. Tune in for inspiration and actionable insights to help you visualize and create the co-parenting relationship you desire!
In the first episode of Season 3, "Juggling – Finding My Identity," I delve into the often-overlooked struggle many mothers face: losing sight of who we are amid the demands of work and parenting. Join me as I share my personal journey of rediscovery, exploring how motherhood can sometimes lead us to bury our true selves. Together, we’ll navigate the challenges of balancing our roles while embarking on the path to reconnecting with our identities. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that it’s never too late to meet yourself again. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about self-discovery a
Welcome to Season 3 of "Black Motherhood Unplugged," a personal podcast where I share my journey as a Black mother. Join me for honest conversations about the joys, challenges, and triumphs of motherhood, as I explore the unique experiences that shape our lives. This is more than a podcast—it's a personal blog where we celebrate authenticity and community. Tune in and connect with my story!
(I meant to say Happy KWANZAA at the end) SORRY >>>In this powerful episode, I delve into the transformative journey of letting go—of relationships, places, and things that no longer serve our highest selves. As we approach 2025, I share my personal experiences and the profound lessons learned along the way. Discover how embracing this process has helped me align with my dreams and visions for the future. Join me as I explore the importance of releasing what holds us back, making space for new opportunities, and trusting in the guidance of the universe. Together, we’ll uncover the freedom that comes with letting go and stepping boldly into our true potential.
In this episode, I dive deep into the importance of transparency in our daily lives. Join me as I explore themes of growth and wisdom, sharing my own journey of self-discovery and the desire to move back to the East Coast. I reflect on how I often deny myself what I truly need while emphasizing the importance of recognizing my worth and what I bring to the table. This relatable conversation is especially for women who are hard on themselves, reminding us all that it’s okay to embrace our unique paths and celebrate our progress. Tune in for an honest and uplifting discussion!
In this episode, I dive into the importance of prioritizing self-love and stress relief as a black single mother. I share personal strategies that help me decompress, focusing on activities that lift my spirit rather than weigh me down. From mindful practices to setting boundaries, I’ll explore how choosing myself first not only enhances my well-being but also empowers me to be a better parent. Join me as we navigate the journey of self-care, resilience, and the joy of embracing our own needs in the midst of motherhood.