Would you pay your spouse's family to marry them?
Not going to lie, we thought this would be a quick discussion but introducing someone to your culture & traditions, especially when there can be negative connotations means sometimes you need to come back to certain conversations.
Will G pay a bride price? Will Chik find a happy compromise?
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In this episode:
01:32 This weeks topic: Bride Price
03:11 How does it work?
06:21 Bride Price = Selling their daughter to a man for an agreed price
12:19 How it feels as a woman when they say this is your worth
24:58 Should you get rid of the tradition in this day and age?
29:32 Would you adapt the concept if it was outside of your cultural traditions?
41:43 As an African daughter your work is never done so how can we feel safer setting up a man with a home who might switch up on us?
Relevant links:
Chik & G Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifebychikandg/
Chik & G Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifebychikandg
Chikumo’s Instagram https://www.instagram.com/chikumof/
Chikumo’s Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@chikumof