Live from APF 2025, autism advocate and sex educator Amy Gravino delivers an unfiltered, powerful conversation about dating, sexuality, and life as an autistic adult. From being bullied as a child to becoming a leading voice for neurodivergent women, Amy shares her personal journey with raw honesty and sharp wit. 

She opens up about the emotional toll of relationships, the heartbreak of being misunderstood, and the frustrating gaps in support that autistic adults continue to face. With real-world insights and humor, Amy challenges outdated stereotypes, breaks down why traditional sex education fails the autism community, and offers a new path forward — one rooted in inclusion, consent, and authentic connection. 

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

00:22 Live at APF 2025: Meet Amy Gravino  

01:28 Amy’s Diagnosis and Early Advocacy

04:41 Asperger’s vs Autism: What’s Changed?Amy explains the historical background and controversies around the Asperger’s label.

06:35 Why the Autism Spectrum Label Matters

07:33 What Professionals Should Do Differently

09:25 Autism, Sexuality & Memoir

10:41 A Broken Adult Services System

12:53 Why Adults with Autism Are Forgotten

15:43 Sex Education for Autistic Adults

17:14 The Rutgers Center & Community Integration

18:06 Dating as an Autistic Female

20:09 How to Connect with Amy