What if claiming you’ve shared everything with your partner is actually sabotaging your recovery? In this eye-opening episode, Luke explains why the statement “I’ve told you everything is so damaging.
He reveals how recovery works in layers, why humility trumps certainty, and how acknowledging what you don’t know yet actually builds more trust than claiming you know it all.
Watch the episode on YouTube HERE
What you’ll learn:
Why claiming full awareness breeds stagnation and relapse in recovery
How denial creates constructed realities that feel safe but aren’t fully true
How believing you’ve “made it” shuts down growth
Chapters
01:10 The Problem of “I’ve Told You Everything”
02:07 Constructed Realities and Denial
04:33 Addictive Systems and Belief Structures
07:40 The Illusion of Full Awareness
13:43 Managing Outcomes vs. Living in Truth
15:10 Practical Language for True Awareness
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Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men:
Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect.
Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.
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Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.
Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma.
Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.
Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.
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